Before we can bring into our lives the changes that we are really wanting, we need to release everything that stands in our way. This can be as simple as having a clear out in your house. We can accumulate years worth of stuff in our houses, this stuff has old energy, it matched our past energy and you'd be surprised just how powerful it is to have a clear out! I spent the day yesterday clearing out my healing room, finding crystals that were for sale on my old website and also finding documents from previous businesses, old signage from my shop, so much stuff that has nothing to do with my present day life. So my recycling bin is full and I feel organised and ready for the changes that I want. Autumn is a great time for a clear out. The trees are shedding their leaves, so join them in releasing. But it's powerful at any time of the year., so don't wait for Autumn! There are the more difficult things to release like negative beliefs, past hurt, negative patterns,... Write down everything negative that you want to release today and go through the list one at a time, look yourself in the eyes in a mirror, and say this: "Even though ........ I deeply & completely love & accept myself. I forgive myself & anyone else involved. I set myself free!" Cross them out one at a time as you have release them. You can even burn the piece of paper when you're finished, too! Do this practice regularly & you will open up doors of magical opportunity in your life. Tell us about your clearing in the comments below! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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Self healing is a never ending journey. Just as you think that you have healed something, released it and moved forward, the universe shows you another shade of the same issue for you to heal. With that in mind I have put together this list of 50 shades of healing, or, how you can help yourself on your inner healing journey. 1. Travel. When we travel we are in a state of openness which allows the universe to bring us so much more opportunity. This state can be achieved without actually travelling; detach from the routine, allow yourself an adventure, open yourself up for the magic to pour in. 2. Follow your own inner knowing. You have a perfectly designed inner guidance system. When you feel good your higher self is telling you that you are on the right path. when you don't feel good your higher self is telling you that you're off the right path. Your path is unique and your guidance system should not match everyone else's. 3. Allow. "Do or do not... There is no try." Sorry to knock Yoda out of the water but "Allow or allow not, there is no do." 4. Be heard. You have a unique message or gift for the world. It is not your place to keep quiet about it. As you let yourself be heard there will be lessons along the way, not everyone will like you, in fact, if your message is profound less people will like you. 5. Release jealousy. Jealousy is feeling bad about something that someone else has managed to allow in their lives. You would like to be able to allow it too, so don't push them away, invite them in so that you can learn how they allowed it! 6. Release blame. You create your own experiences. Nobody else can ever have a creative effect in your life. You're a creator you know! 7. Forgive others. If you feel that someone else made your life harder, the real truth is that they delivered a much needed lesson and they did that out of their higher self's love for you. 8. Release doubt. Doubt cancels all of your hard work out. Manifestation stops when doubt blocks its way. 9. Know yourself. Who is the real you? Stop trying to be who others want you to be. Stop trying to match others that you admire. To be yourself firstly you must know yourself. 10. Be in the now. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift, that's why it's called the present. 11. Listen to your guidance. Listening to your inner guidance is a skill. Skills need practice. Learn how to meditate. 12. Be your own best friend. Put yourself first. Know that the support and help that you give to others is exactly what you need to receive yourself. 13. Refocus on what you want. Minds run wild if we don't learn to use them to our own benefit. A mind running wild thinks about drama, about what could go wrong, it fears, it focuses on what you don't actually want - and then your mind creates all of that into your reality! Refocus on what you actually want. 14. Nurture your connection. You are a divine being with a connection to your higher self, source, or God. This connection needs to be nurtured with spiritual practice. Spiritual practice is anything that you do with an intention of nurturing this connection. 15. Release guilt. Guilt seeks punishment. When you feel guilty you unconsciously punish yourself to make yourself feel better. It doesn't work. Only releasing the guilt itself makes you truly feel better. 16. Have gratitude. Focus on what you already have with gratitude in your heart. We are all far more wealthy than we allow ourselves to realise. Focus on how far you have already grown with gratitude in your heart. 17. Empower yourself. Being spiritual doesn't mean being nice, or being a doormat. Love yourself enough to have clear boundaries and uphold them. 18. Be willing. The number 1 question asked by my customers is "How do I know what my life purpose is?" The answer is, it doesn't matter whether you know it or not, all that is matter is that you are willing to follow the path to it. Life is about the journey, not the destination. 19. Constant growth. A lesson is never complete. There is always further expansion available. You cannot ever master anything. There is always constant growth. Don't be disheartened that there is never an completion point, this is life. 20. Have respect. Respect will only be given to you once you respect yourself and others. Don't search for these things outside of yourself. 21. Believe in yourself. The only person better than you is the person that you are yet to become. 22. Live life with passion! Have you ever wondered where your passion comes from? It's from your higher self. This feeling is given to you to show you that this is super important in your life path. Follow your passion. 23. You are innocent. Forgive yourself everything because you are innocent. Anything that you have done that you wish you hadn't was an important part of your learning, and you also you played a part in someone else's learning too. It was right that you did this. Lessons are the reason we are all here. 24. Love what is. Love the lessons! Love that you need to learn the lessons. Love it when an uncomfortable feeling comes, because there is something new to learn about yourself. Become a willing student in life and rejoice in the lessons. 25. Love where you are right now. You are on a path from ignorance, or not knowing yourself, to knowledge and experiencing a fuller expression of yourself. Where you are on that path right now is perfect. You shouldn't be further along that path than you are already. 26. Peace is a choice. You can choose to feel peaceful in the face of anything. You can also choose drama and conflict if you want. Learn how to choose your reactions. 27. Put love into everything you do. Make the whole of your life a living meditation by putting love into everything that you do. 28. Appreciate yourself. Money that is put into a savings account appreciates in value. Appreciation means growth. You are constantly growing. Appreciate yourself by making time for self growth every day. 29. Be of service. Your path is to learn all about yourself, and share what you have learned with the world. When you focus on being of service to others, whilst being open to receive the same energy back to yourself, life will become miraculous. 30. Freedom is yours for the allowing. Freedom is available to you right now. It is a choice that you can make. Nobody is keeping you in servitude, nobody else can have a creative effect in your life. Drop the conspiracy theories and create your own freedom. 31. Abundance is yours for the allowing. Abundance is available to you right now. It is a choice that you can make. Nobody is keeping you in lack, nobody else can have a creative effect in your life. Drop the lack stories and allow abundance. 32. Guidance is all around. You have access to the whole collective spiritual consciousness that is God, or source. Everything that you ask is answered. Ask for the help that you need and it will be given to you. 33. Soften your masks. When people feel insecure they put on a mask of strength and courage. When people feel unhappy they put on a mask of happiness. There are as many masks as there are individuals. Soften these masks, allow your true self to shine through. 34. Follow your joy. Your inner guidance system is always showing you the way to go. When faced with a decision, choose the option that will bring you most joy: this is the option that is aligned with your higher self. 35. Trust your intuition. When something feels off, turn around and walk in the opposite direction. When someone doesn't feel quite right, turn around and walk in the opposite direction. Trust your inner guidance system. 36. Go within regularly. Make meditation a part of your daily routine. Like brushing your teeth each morning, take care of your mind and spirit by meditating. 37. Take one step at a time. You're on a path from not being or having something, to being or having it. The energy gap between the 2 is large and cannot be accomplished in one jump. Know that you are only ever required to take 1 step at a time, then something that once felt overwhelming will come easily. 38. Stay in the flow. When something is working, do it. When something isn't working, stop. When something is coming with ease, do it. When something is a struggle, stop. Keep yourself in the flow and out of the struggle. 39. Face what needs to be healed. Feel those uncomfortable emotions. Allow yourself to ponder those uncomfortable thoughts. The first step of healing is owning what needs to be healed. Shine a bright light onto it and it will dissipate. 40. You are already perfect. It's great to want to grow, but when it makes us feel less than perfect as we are, we block ourselves. You are perfect as the learning and growing spirit that you already are. 41. Detach from everything that isn't you anymore. As you grow, your energy changes. As your energy changes, you attract new people, experiences and things that are a match to you - unless you can't let go of the old matches... 42. If in doubt, let it go. Did you know that your higher self can do everything far more easily than you can alone? If you have a problem, let it go. If you want to do something, let it go. Your higher self knows what you want, and if you get yourself (ego) out of the way, it will give it to you with ease. 43. Take time to be alone. Be alone, still and quiet often. It is far easier to know who you really are when you don't have everyone else's energy around you. Spend time alone and clear everyone else's energy out of your system. 44. From wisdom comes understanding. Understanding doesn't come from just hearing wise words, it comes from experiencing and living them. 45. The biggest transformations come from adversity. When we experience things that we don't want, it gives us the desire to improve our lot. This desire gets the wheels of manifestation in motion and we grow. We cannot grow without adversity. 46. Spend time in nature. It will clear your energy, your mind, and show you your connection to the divine. 47. Love yourself. If you want to be loved, love yourself. This means spending time figuring out how and why you are not already loving yourself, healing and releasing it. 48. Allow yourself to receive. If you are out of balance, you will be given lessons. If you give without receiving you are out of balance. Many people are out of balance in this way. Open up to receiving. 49. Feel fear and push past it. Fear is not a real emotion, it is not an emotion from your inner guidance system that is felt right away. Fear is felt after a thought, it comes from thoughts aand judgments about an original thought. Inner guidance emotions come in the present moment. Fear comes from the ego, minutes, hours or days after the moment. 50. Your life path is a mystery. It's a mystery for good reason. You are creating it with every thought, desire and reaction that you have. It is up to you where you life heads. Spend time daydreaming the life that you really want in order to create it into being. Leave your comments below. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Truth and fact are words that are overused. There is, in fact, very little truth in this world (pun intended!). There are a couple of universal facts, like the Law of Attraction, which states that we receive back what we give out. Facts such as our being conscious creator spiritual beings that have bodies. The rest of what we think are facts or truthes are just our own personal perceptions coming from our inner guidance systems. We have access to our own personal truthes, through our inner guidance systems. We each have an inner voice, or a feeling of what resonates with us or not, what feels right to us or not, and what makes us feel good and what doesn't. Everyone's guidance systems are different because they are designed to lead us on our own unique life paths. Therefore what is fact or truth for one, is not the truth for another. Some examples: Joe is a butcher. He grew up loving eating meat, it feels good to him, his body feels good after eating meat. If he were to refrain from eating meat he would feel weak, not so good, not so strong - his body would let him know that what he was doing in that moment was not aligned with his truth. Joe believes that it is right to eat meat and that humans should eat meat. Joe has listened to his guidance system very well - his spirit wanted him to be a butcher, this is his passion, he is also learning about respecting animals, killing animals in a respectful way and about not wasting an animal. There is plenty of spiritual growth on his path and his path is right for him. Joe will experience happiness and health in his life if he stays true to himself, does not believe those who would tell him he was wrong, and does not try to impose his truth onto others. Mary is a Naturopath. She decided to be vegetarian in her teenage years, it felt good to her. In her 20's she decided to be a vegan. Her body feels good on this diet, it is aligned with how she feels about animals, her body agrees with her alignment as does her spirit. Mary beleives that it is right to eat only plants and that this is the right diet for human beings. Mary listened to her guidance system very well - her spirit wanted her to be a Naturopath, that is her passion, she is also learning more about how to be really healthy on a vegan diet, and how to balance other people's vegan diets. She is also learning how foods can be medicine and helping people who want to make that same choice, to do it with ease. There is plenty of spiritual growth for her and her path is right for her. Mary will experience happiness and health in her life if she stays true to herself, does not believe those who would tell her she was wrong, and does not try to impose her truth onto others. The trouble starts when we don't accept that we are all right, alright? Mary could start to feel resistance to her path, she could feel insecure in it because others don't agree with her, she could think that if she applies enough pressure to others that they will learn THE truth that she has learned. I think we have all met angry vegans like this! Instead of healing her self-doubt and becoming more confident in herself, she believes that she can get confidence from outside of herself by having others validate her rightness. This story ends in misery. Likewise, Joe could start to feel resistance to his path, he could feel insecure that he will lose his livelihood and passion if too many people believe Mary. He could think that if he applies enough pressure to others that they will learn THE truth that he has learned. I think we've all seen those advertisements trying to tell us that we should all eat meat. So instead of Joe finding the security within himself and his friends around him, who will always love eating meat, he wants to find the security by getting validation from others who don't agree with him. This story ends in the closing down of his shop. Even scientists cannot escape the law of attraction and their own inner guidance systems: Bob is passionate about global warming and in proving it so that he can do something about the environmental concerns that he has. Bob is listening to his guidance system, his spirit wanted him to learn all about the environment so that he could make Earth an easier place to live in for the majority. The experiments and tests that he does will always confirm that global warming exists because the universe must give him like-energy back (Unless he is doubtful, of course). The problem occurs when he tries to convince Alice of this. Alice is also a scientist, her passion is power, she loves to find out ways to generate power from materials and generate new expansion in that area. Alice is listening to her guidance system, her spirit wants her to investigate power sources so that she can make other's amazing creations happen with that power. The experiments and tests that she does will always confirm that global warming doesn't exist because it is not aligned with her and the universe can only give her esxperiences that are aligned with her. Problems start if Alice tries to convince Bob of her rightness. And parents: George walks down the street with his daughter, she's eating an ice pop and she asks her dad what she should do with the wrapper. George tells her that she should put it in the bin. He values clean and tidy streets and wants to teach his daughter the same values. He feels that he is teaching her something that can only be perceived as right. Billy walks down the street with his son, he's eating an ice pop and he asks his dad what he should do with the wrapper. Billy tells him to throw it on the ground. Billy is unemployed, most of his friends are unemployed too, they all struggle to get by. He explains to his son that if the streets are clean then the council will not employ people like his friend Andy to pick up litter and then Andy would be out of a job and struggling again. Billy values employment and wants to teach his son the same values. He feels that he is teaching him something that can only be perceived as right. Everyone bases their point of view through their guidance system filters and their value systems. We could all accept that no matter what we are perceiving somebody else will be experiencing something completely different. There is no wrong and no right, just personal wrongs and rights, personal alignment or non-alignment. There are no correct and incorrect values. There is no one true spiritual path and false paths. There is no one true religion or faith. There is only perception and that is what makes us truly incredible creator beings! Leave your comments below. I'd love to hear about your perceptions that have been challenged. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Like artists, musicians and anybody using their gifts, healers can often find themselves in a struggle to live their passion. Gone are the days of being taken under the wing of a religion funded by donations, healers are choosing to honour their unique spiritual paths and to help others to find their own connection to source from within themselves. This leaves each healer the task of being self-supported, which brings with it its own unique lessons. I am blessed to be a healer with a background in business. My unique combination of gifts and experience attracts healers to me. Over my many years of being a full-time healer I have helped thousands of healers to transform their own lives, empower themselves and start living their passion. There are 7 habits of highly effective healers: 1. Focus on love Healers channel universal energy. Universal energy is love. However, love is not always nice; love often delivers lessons. Healing can feel confronting and unpleasant whilst going through it. As a healer it is important to leave your ego behind. Your job is not to please people but to help people to heal. Customers will sometimes have negative emotional reactions to your work if you are doing a good job! Do not expect or require constant positive feedback. 99% of my customers who have had initial negative emotional reactions to my work have got back to me after a few weeks apologising for their behaviour saying that the truth was hard to hear. Effective healers give the help that is required, do not need praise and are not stopped by criticism. 2. Love what is A healers path is just that: a path. There is no goal, just constant growth and expansion. Through your desires you are constantly reinventing your goals and adding steps to your path. Your direction is completely your creation. As a healer you are not expected to be perfect, yet it is advisable to be constantly active on your own healing path. There will be times when you look back to see that the help that you gave someone in the past is no longer aligned with you. This is only to be expected if you are growing and expanding, constantly improving. However, those that you can help are attracted to your energy and therefore need what you offer at the time it is given. It does not serve anyone to look back with regret. Effective healers love their own unfolding and trust in what they give. 3. Believe in themselves Healers are channels and so is everybody else with any skill or knowledge in this world. Healer spirits, angels, entities,... work through healers as an equal to the healers own spirit or higher self. This means that as a healer you are not just channeling healing energy from other spirits, but also from your own spirit. Without your own desire, passion, creativity, effort, time and energy, the healing connection that you embody would not exist. You are the creative force behind what you do. The healing spirits who work with you receive as much from you as you receive from them. They get to experience the creative process through you. We are all creators, humans and pure spirit alike, and we work together as co-creators. Effective healers believe in themselves, their abilities and take ownership of their own important part in the process. 4. Are creative It is great to learn from other healers but not to copy them. Every healer has their own unique life path which has given them the experiences, the skills, the knowledge and the desire to be able to help others to heal themselves. Every healer as their own unique energy footprint and therefore attracts like-energy customers to them. There is no competition between healers who are being themselves; just cooperation. However, there can be competition between healers who are copying others. Let your own experiences forge your own healing path, let your own healing path drive your desire to help others, let the knowledge that has come from that path mold what you give. Effective healers learn as much as they can from others and offer their unique gifts to the world. 5. Take Action If you wanted to just hold the energy, or to meditate constantly, then you would have remained in the spirit form of pure consciousness. Instead, you incarnated on Earth. You did this because you wanted to experience your creativity in a more dense, physical plane. You came here to expand, learn, grow, create. Some healers think that they came here just to help others: this is not true. You came to expand your own awareness and experience in your interest area of healing as much as you came to help others. So your healing work is as self-serving as any other work that you could do. Your interest in healing at a higher self level brought you here to indulge yourself in learning more about it. Effective healers indulge themselves in healing and put all of their learning into action. 6. Allow abundance Healers often have such a focus on giving that they forget to allow themselves to receive. When there is an imbalance between giving and receiving the universe can only give lessons. Until you can allow yourself to receive the balance of energy back that you want to give, you limit the amount of energy that you can give. So if you are out of balance the universe holds those people that you could help away from you. Inbalance of giving and receiving shows up as limited funds, limited customers, yo-yoing finances, inability to reach and help more people. Abundance in plenty is available to everyone as a birth right. You do not need to prove your worth, nor in fact do anything in particular to receive it. All is required is for you to allow it. Effective healers allow the balance of giving and receiving abundance to flow. 7. Speak their truth Healer spirits want to incarnate into an experience that will ensure their direction in life. As a healer you will have chosen your parents and surroundings very carefully so that you would experience the conditions that would lead you to desire to heal yourself, to create your healing path from this desire, to follow that healing path, to gain the knowledge and experience from doing so, to pass that knowledge on to others. Your life path experience is at the core of what you can give as a healer. You attract to you those people that you are one step ahead of, so that you can help them to heal themselves in the way that you have healed yourself. The more you heal yourself, the more you can help others. Effective healers draw on their own life experience and healing to best help others to heal themselves. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Do you find that you are experiencing the same issues over and over again? The people might change, but the lessons seem to stay the same. You're working on yourself, you feel like you're learning and moving on, you feel like you've figured something out about yourself but those same issues keep coming back. This shows you that you are not getting the whole story, the full picture, you're not seeing every aspect of it and clearing it completely, you're only healing one part of the subject over and over and missing the other more important aspects of it. The 3 things that stop you from getting through these issues 1. Not working on yourself enough. I work on myself constantly. I have a daily meditation practice which gives me the clarity that I need to be able to face what I need to clear. I focus myself daily on the area that I want to move forward in and ask my angel guides to reveal all of the aspects to me. I pay close attention to what is then shown to me, books, training, products, webinars, solutions in all sorts of guises. I spend half of my day (yes, half of every day!) on actioning these signs that are shown to me. If you want to clear your issues quickly then you need to prioritise yourself and your healing and spend time on it. 2. Not getting help when the help is needed. I don't stop at the signs, reading the books, doing the training, going to the seminars, buying the products, attending the webinars, or whatever else it is. I get readings from other psychics, so that they can shed light on any other aspects of it that I am not seeing myself. I get healings from other healers, so that they can help me to shift the energy quickly so that the inner work that I'm doing is clearer and can have an immediate effect. I get weekly massages, tuning into my body to receive its messages. I believe in what I do and I get the help that is required at the very moment that I need it without hesitation. If you want to clear issues completely you need to get help when the help is needed. Too many people are given the nudge to get a reading, to get a massage, to get a healing and instead of following that sign, they put it off or do not assign the value to it or to themselves and as such miss the open door that was available to allow the healing that was present in that moment. Stop putting it off, get help today! 3. Avoiding facing the issues. I'm one of the few people that love healing myself. I love when something uncomfortable comes along, because it means that I'm ready to release something else and take leaps forward in my life. Other psychics have told me that I have excess baggage, I set my life up to experience most of the worst of the worst that life has to offer. Counsellors and psychiatrists say that it is a miracle that I am still alive. I set this life up because I have a spirit who is passionate about healing and I wanted to experience all those things, heal them within myself and help you to do the same. Facing the issues, and welcoming the issues to face them takes courage - but it takes a great deal more energy to avoid them and experience them over and over and over as a result. Facing your issues requires you to own them, to not blame others, or project them onto anyone else. It is empowering. If you want to clear issues completely and quickly you need to own them and face them fully. You created them, nobody else is doing anything to you, nobody else has creative power in your life, you are manifesting it all. Be brave, it's worth it, there are good times ahead, and more lessons but the lessons get easier and the results get better and better. Remember: ~ Prioritise yourself and your healing ~ Get help the moment you need it ~ Own your issues & face them fully Happy healing! Let us know your experiences in the comments below. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. 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