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Maybe it's just me, but if someone gives me a rule, I want to break it right away, in front of them, sticking my tongue out at them, holding one finger in the air whilst walking away feeling empowered & my true fiery self. Imposing rules on others based on your judgments is kind of an asshole thing to do, so then why do I do it to myself? For many years now I've had a personal rule to not have sex with anyone younger than my eldest child. The thing is I keep breaking that rule! It's not my fault: I look nowhere near my age, I feel nowhere near my age, I act nowhere near my age, they are attracted to me, I'm attracted to them, I ask their age & then say "Yes, of course you are!" & do them anyway. And why does the universe keep sending me the men that cause me to break my own rule? Judge nothing, love everything! The answer is that universe has wiser rules than me. It knows that nothing is to be judged, everything is to be not just accepted but also loved. This must be why, a few months ago when I declared to friends "I'm not in any rush to get into a relationship" within a few short hours I was in a new relationship. That's the universe saying "Is that right Claire?" whilst sticking it's tongue out, holding one finger up in the air & walking away from me being its true expansive limitless self. Judge nothing, love everything: as soon as you break that rule, the universe steps in to show you better. As soon as you break that rule, you step in to show yourself better. Maybe, just maybe, if we were to drop all of our self-imposed rules & declarations, we could actually have what we want & what's best for us. What do you think? I think it's worth a go! & I'll go first. I've dropped most of my food rules already & eat what I feel like eating, now I generally make healthy food choices because there is no longer any need for me to break my own rules. It's easy to make good choices here in Thailand because the food is my favourite. I'm still totally judging myself on drinking too much, & I don't think I have any rules about that, but if I have any deep down that I'm trying to ignore, I'm breaking them. It's great fun to break them, too. I know from experience that when I drop the judgments & rules about something, that thing tends to settle into a easy pattern of joyfulness. Rules about food, relationships, sex, drugs, rock & roll, money, morals, work, cleanliness, emotions, clothing... I'm not suggesting that we become assholes to other people, I'm suggesting that we actually stop being assholes when we drop our rules. So I'm conducting an experiment. From this day forward I'm going to be super aware of all of my rules & I'm going to drop them all, yes, all of them. It's going to be fun, of that I'm sure & I'll laugh at myself, because it will be funny. I'll report back soon letting you know what happened. What rules have you set yourself that you keep breaking? What are you judging that you could be loving? Would you like to join me in my experiment? Comment below & share your experiences as you go along!  I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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 We go around, living life, interacting with each other, giving each other gifts & lessons. We can't help but touch other's lives, even if we were to live in isolation, doing so would have an impact on other's lives. We not only give these gifts & lessons, we also receive them from others. Receiving lessons can feel hard. When we are shown something about ourselves that we have previously judged as wrong, or bad, or we are shown something we don't want to admit about ourselves, it hurts. Our subconscious minds desperately want to protect us from anything that hurts us & so it advises us to put up our walls, enforce our boundaries, disconnect & protect ourselves from others. There is a good case for spending time alone, getting back to ourselves after a lesson is dealt, tuning into what we feel & think, rather than reacting to other's lives. Doing that serves us well, but there comes a time when we need to open back up & be willing to allow other's to touch our life. When you haven't understood the previous lesson that caused you to shut down, it can be very hard to open back up, it can feel overwhelming to do so, the fear is real, what if it happens again? This is why it's so important to understand your lessons, to process what has happened, to receive the gift from it. Then you can open back up to more gifts, more lessons & move forward in life. The subconscious mind can relax once we learn that the lesson wasn't a bad thing, it was a beneficial part of our lives. The way I learn my lessons is by connecting in with my higher self in meditation & asking questions. Why did this happen? What am I not seeing about this situation? Why has this happened again? Why am I attracting this? What else is possible? The answers come, sometimes in the moment, sometimes through signs & messages, & sometimes through readings with my cards. You too can get your answers through asking, through your signs & messages, & through readings. All it takes is an openness & a willingness to face whatever is behind your lesson. It's never as bad or difficult as your subconscious is making it out to be. Refusal to face it is surrendering to fear, it's resistance & resisting life makes life very difficult. What are you scared to open back up to? Are you ready to face what is behind it? If you would like answers from your higher self in a guidance reading click here  I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! |
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