 I wanted these shorts today For the last 2 weeks I've been talking about reaching out for what you want & this week we are being asked to be at peace with what we are reaching out for. Often people can think that they cannot reach out for what they want because external circumstances are preventing them from doing so. "I don't have the money to...", "I don't have the time to...", "I don't have the freedom to..." But none of these are actually true, because these conditions that we think are stopping us are just ingredients that come along when we reach out for what we want. For example, if you decide that you are going to do something, the money will turn up. A few years ago I was walking in a town I had never been to before, through an ocean front park with swimming pools & there was a standing wave machine, to surf on. I was in my swim gear, I didn't have any money with me, you needed money to have a go on this machine. Nevertheless, I knew how much I wanted to go on it, I'd never tried one before, & I knew that anything is possible. So I said I was going to do it. My companion said that we can't do it because we don't have the money, I said we will get the money somehow. He said "How?" I said "I don't know yet, I'll let you know when it shows up" So I went up to the booking counter to ask the price & to see if there was some possible way of doing it without money, there wasn't. Then I was drawn to a cafe nearby, to an ice cream counter, where there on the floor was a dropped note, the amount that we needed to go on the wave machine & enough for an ice cream each too ha ha! The money wasn't an important ingredient here, that was easily manifestable, the important ingredient was my belief that I could do it, I wanted it, I believed I could, I reached out for it & I got it. The universe is very accomodating. But what if I had let my companion's "We can't do it because we don't have the money" belief to override my belief? What if I let another belief like "I shouldn't want to do this" to rule? What if I believed that I didn't deserve to do it? There are so many beliefs that can stop us from reaching out for what we want, from believing that we can have what we want. That the ingredients haven't turned up yet is a lazy excuse for not adding the ingredients that you do already have inside of you, your belief, your determination & your inspiration: your true power!  The only thing stopping you from instantly manifesting anything you want is not being in alignment with it, or in other words, a block to it. A block is a resistance to, or a contradiction to, what you really want.
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 This week we are invited to open up to amazing opportunities & amazing abundance, so how do we do that? Our stories that play over & over in our minds manifest into our life experience. This means that as we have observed what happened to our parents & those around us, we have stories of what the world is like, of what is available to people, of what happens to people. These stories come true for us because they are our stories. But it's a sabotage to think that these stories are true, because look over there at other people with totally different life experiences, they have different stories & it shows in their different life experiences. So first we need to let go of stories we have about "how it is" & open up to the infinite abundance of possibilities that are available. There is an infinite amount of life experiences that we can have on this planet, it's up to you to create your own story rather than live other people's old stories. Opening up to what you would really love to do requires you to love yourself, to be compassionate with yourself, to know that you deserve to have a good life experience. It's only when you love yourself enough to do what makes you happy that you will be of service to the rest of the world in a way that will easily attract more abundance to you. This isn't about finding something to do that you don't like to do to chase abundance, it's being more of yourself so that people naturally want what you love to do for people you love to do it for. Happy confident people who are being themselves & having a good time are very attractive. Abundance is not only about seeing the abundance that is everywhere around you, it's in recognising that you ARE the abundance, you have the abundant resources within you, as everyone else does. For example, Joe has a job collecting tickets in a booth, but Ben doesn't have a job, Joe earns money from that job, his resource inside of himself that he uses for that money is his time, Ben also has the same 24 hours every that Joe has, so that abundance resource is within them both. Alice writes for a local newspaper & Jenny writes a best selling novel, Alice makes a certain amount of money from the newspaper & writes many more words every week than Jenny does, but Jenny makes a whole lot of money from her books, their internal resources are very similar, they both have the same time & they can both write. Peter Porsche makes excellent cars, Kevin Lada makes cars too, they both know how to make cars & know how to run a business too & they attract different levels of abundance. Patricia likes to keep to herself & spends most days alone, Sarah is outgoing & very friendly, she has an abundance of friends that Patricia doesn't have, yet they both have the same human being resources inside of them for friendships. In each of these examples you can see it's how they use the resources that they have inside of them that attracts the abundance that they experience, and how they use their resources depends on how they feel about themselves & how they feel about the abundance that they want in their lives. But in every single case the abundance resource is inside of them. There is nothing that we should want or shouldn't want. We are free to choose anything, that is what abundance is! You don't have to want more friends if you like time alone for example. You don't have to want more of anything if you don't choose it. Yet there are many people experiencing less abundance than they actually choose because they are not honouring the abundance of resources that are within them & believing in their potential to attract anything that they want from them. What stories are you telling? What abundant resources are in you? What abundance would you like to experience next? Tell us in the comments below  The only thing stopping you from instantly manifesting anything you want is not being in alignment with it, or in other words, a block to it. A block is a resistance to, or a contradiction to, what you really want.
What is your biggest block? How can you release it? Your higher self knows! Book your 3-page biggest block reading today here!  An archer hits the bullseye by focusing on the bullseye, on their target & letting go of the arrow to let it fly through the air & reach the goal. It doesn't help to fight the wind, or to try to push the arrow, or to run with the arrow up to the target, or to try to push the string forward to make it go faster, in fact all of that action will hinder the arrow reaching the target. All they need to do is focus on the target & let go. The same goes for manifesting too. The more you struggle & try to do it yourself the more you hinder reaching the goal. The more you let go whilst focusing on your goal, the easier the universe can guide you to hitting your bullseye. When your mind harasses you telling you that you need to take action, to fight it, to push it, to make it happen yourself, just remind yourself of your target & focus on it, let go, trust. You could even make a vision board with a picture of a target & put your goals on the bullseye!  The only thing stopping you from instantly manifesting anything you want is not being in alignment with it, or in other words, a block to it. A block is a resistance to, or a contradiction to, what you really want.
What is your biggest block? How can you release it? Your higher self knows the easiest path to releasing your greatest resistance & can lead you step by step to breaking free of it. Click here to book your biggest block reading today!  If we accept what is are we telling the universe that we are ok with things not changing? How do we even accept what is anyway when we don't like what is? Accepting what is, it's a tricky subject because our ego naturally wants to fight everything it doesn't like, it wants to protect us from it. That works great for navigating sheer drop cliffs, sabre tooth tiger encounters & dodging out of the way of a falling tree. But it doesn't work so well or jobs, people, behaviours, relationships, relationshits, money, & pretty much everything we deal with in our every day lives. The universe brings us more of everything we are focused on, especially if we power our focus with an intense emotional state. So, fighting things we don't like, trying to get rid of them, pushing them away, protesting them, yelling about them, continually posting on Facebook about it,... it all brings more of it to us faster. So how do we accept things that we don't like? 1. Accept that something exists for someone who wants that. You might not like war, you can't see any good reason to have wars, but you can accept that wars exist because some people want them. You only need to look at the amount of war movies that are made to see that a lot of human beings are interested in war, they want it, they are excited by it, they can justify going into war, they have a good reason for it, so war must exist for those warrior souls who like that stuff. It doesn't mean you have to get involved, you don't have to sign up for the army, you don't have to infiltrate the government to stop it, you don't even have to think about it. You can accept that it exists, much the same way as brussel sprouts exist, they taste horrible but some people like them, I accept that they exist, I wouldn't choose to eat them, I hardly ever think about them (watch me manifest them now!) 2. Accept that you manifested it. You might not want to admit it, but you created it, you imagined something into being, you focused on it, you worried about it, you were scared of it happening, you read about it, you talked about it, you believed it, you thought about it. Even if someone else gave you that thought or that belief, you still chose to pick it up & run with it. Sure our minds are hard to control, it's hard to stop thinking about things that we don't want, but we all still do it & we get the results of that. So we might as well accept that we created it, but not in a self-deprecating way like "Oh I did it again! I'm an idiot!" in an accepting way like "Oops I did it again, let me have another go!" 3.Accept your choices. Everyone has free will. We get to choose what we want in life. Nothing is imposed on us. It might seem like it is if we go along with what others want of us. But we can opt out, we can say no, we can move somewhere else, we can choose not to be friends with that person, we can stop shopping there, we can leave that job, we can choose better for ourselves. Accepting responsibility of choice removes victim mentality. You have free will. You chose it all, even if you chose it unconsciously. Accept that & then you will be able to choose better for yourself. 4. Accept others behaviour. It's their stuff not yours. You might think that it's about you, but really their behaviour is about them. If you think someone has hurt you, what has really happened is that you expected them to be different & they broke your expectations. People are going to be themselves. When you accept that, then you can let go of the false idea that they are wrong for being themselves or that who they are has anything to do with you. Be more selective, see people for who they are, who they show you they are & choose who you would like to be around because there are literally 7.7 billion people to choose from & they aren't all narcissists, or cheats, or liars, or whatever it is you keep finding. Accept that they will be who they are, instead of fighting who they are being, or trying to change them & you will allow yourself to attract the kinds of people you would prefer. "Oops, I did it again, let me have another go!" What did you manifest again? How can you accept it instead now so that you can have another go? Share in the comments below.  The only thing stopping you from instantly manifesting anything you want is not being in alignment with it, or in other words, a block to it. A block is a resistance to, or a contradiction to, what you really want.
What is your biggest block? How can you release it? Your higher self knows the easiest path to releasing your greatest resistance & can lead you step by step to breaking free of it. Click here to book your biggest block reading today!  I used to think it was my duty to sacrifice myself for others. I used to think I was a good person for trying to help anyone I saw in need of help, whether they asked for it or not. I used to think I gained some kind of credit for giving up my energy, my wishes, my well-being, my time, to give others what they wanted. At one point I was doing it in my business too, I was giving all of myself, constantly every day & getting so little in return. It was exhausting & I used to think it was other people's problem. I had believed the rhetoric that if you just give, give & then give some more then it will come back to you, eventually. But then it never did. What did happen was that I burned out & I became resentful that I was giving it all without getting what I needed, never mind what I wanted. I learned that this kind of giving is in fact judgment of others. So imagine someone coming up to you & telling you that something in your life, that you love, that you enjoy, is actually a problem & they have come to fix it! You know how that would feel right? Hmm, actually, this isn't a problem, I love it. Or maybe you would believe them & allow them to "help" you? I know I have done both in the past. But I have also been this person perceiving problems where there really aren't any. Trying to help when really I am judging what I see in others as a problem when it isn't, or if it is, that's for them to decide & to find their solution in connection with their higher self. The thing is when we are in alignment, when we are focused on our life & creating what we want in our lives to make ourselves feel good, then we end up being of true service to others, not by looking at them & deciding they have a problem, but by doing what makes us feel great. For example, I love doing the weight loss coaching, but I'm not going up to people who I think are fat & asking them do they want it? Ha ha, I am just putting it out there for those that do & having a great time teaching them & helping them when they ask for it, no judgment involved. I love giving readings, but I'm not going out looking for people with problems to ask them do they want a reading on it (I so used to do that!) I just offer the service for those who want it. I love doing the management for my friend at the Muay Thai gym here, it is so much fun, but it wasn't because I thought he had a problem with it. However, in the last few days I have found myself seeing problems in my close relationships & wanting to help. Just after I shot the week ahead reading I realised that I was doing it again! You see, everything should be a win win situation. You don't need to give up anything for anyone else. Martyrdom isn't cool it's really annoying to everyone including the martyr! When you are in true alignment, doing what makes you feel great, you will want to do things that help others, not because you have noticed there is a problem with them, but because it feels so much fun to do it. Take a look at what you are doing that doesn't feel good. Why are you doing it? What is the problem that you have perceived that needs to be fixed by you doing this? Isn't that a judgment? Could you allow yourself to just do what you love? Let us know in the comments!  The only thing stopping you from instantly manifesting anything you want is not being in alignment with it, or in other words, a block to it. A block is a resistance to, or a contradiction to, what you really want.
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