Empaths tend to be over-givers & therefore attract people who will take take take. It's exhausting, so let me teach you how to change this pattern!
The universe is always in a state of balance and when we are out of balance we attract people who are also out of balance but on the opposite side of that balance. Perhaps you believe that it is good to give give give, to be generous, and you're right, it is. But perhaps you also believe that it's not ok to receive, that it's not safe to receive, or that it makes you selfish to receive. When you pair these beliefs up, you have the recipe for an over-giver who doesn't allow reciprocation in.
You might think that if you receive more, then that makes you selfish. But if you think of a scale, on one end of the scale you have those who are completely selfless, who will only give & never receive. On the other end of the scale you have completely selfish people, who only take & will not give a thing. In the middle there is balance. Those who allow themselves to receive as much as they give, those who know they deserve to receive as much as they give. 

These people who are in balance, they can give more & when they do they start to receive more, because they allow it, because they believe in this balance. It is a form of self-love, to know that you deserve to receive.
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Now put yourself in the shoes of the universe. It's your job to match up energies so that everyone gets what they want. You have one person who only wants to receive & they want to give nothing at all, you also have another person who only wants to give & they want to receive nothing at all - MATCH! You will put those 2 people together because they are an out-of-balance match right?

How to receive more:

1. Change your belief system. It's no better to give than to receive. They are both good. Balance is best,

2. Change your expectations of receiving. Know that love is incomplete unless you include yourself in that, self-love. Expect to receive as much energy, love, etc. back as you give out in the world.

3. Hold back your energy in the non-reciprocal situations you have found yourself in. Stop doing it. Opt out. 

4. Notice reciprocity. Allow yourself to receive from what you give. Charge for what you do. Ask for that raise because you work hard. Choose reciprocal people to engage with. When a situation is one-way, remove yourself from the dynamic. No longer be willing to supply the takers with what they are asking for: supply without giving.

Three weeks ago, I set a new financial goal for my business—a weekly target. Once I committed to that goal, I felt inspired to take action in several ways: I created and listed my abundance blueprint for sale, restarted writing these blogs, reached out to a few entrepreneurial friends, and reconnected with some former clients. I followed through on all of it, and by the end of the second week, I had reached my goal.
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Now, it's time to set a new challenge: doubling my previous goal. It feels achievable but still just beyond my current reach.

Often, when we reach a goal, we forget to celebrate. We get comfortable at that level, feeling relieved to have made it, and we stop pushing for more. Reaching for the next goal can feel uncomfortable—like nothing is ever enough, or worse, that you’re not enough. But what if you celebrated each win, even the small ones? By doing so, you’ll create more opportunities to feel good about yourself, acknowledge your progress, and then stretch further.

Now that I’ve set my new goal, I’m excited to receive the inspiration and guidance for the next steps along the way.
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​`Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?' `That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,' said the Cat. `I don't much care where--' said Alice. `Then it doesn't matter which way you go,' said the Cat.

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When stress, worry, and fear take over, they block our access to the energy, creativity, and solutions we need. This mental overload prevents us from tapping into our inner genius, stifling the ideas and motivation that drive us forward and help us thrive.

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This shift isn’t easy—it demands that you prioritize your wellbeing and choose to rise above your subconscious fears. It involves making decisions rooted in the belief that feeling better right now is essential, and from that place, you can open yourself up to abundance.

It takes a commitment to deeper self-love to feel better in the present moment and a resolve to rise above your subconscious fears. This determination allows you to choose what you want to focus on, rather than being controlled by your subconscious fears.