Truth and fact are words that are overused. There is, in fact, very little truth in this world (pun intended!). There are a couple of universal facts, like the Law of Attraction, which states that we receive back what we give out. Facts such as our being conscious creator spiritual beings that have bodies. The rest of what we think are facts or truthes are just our own personal perceptions coming from our inner guidance systems. We have access to our own personal truthes, through our inner guidance systems. We each have an inner voice, or a feeling of what resonates with us or not, what feels right to us or not, and what makes us feel good and what doesn't. Everyone's guidance systems are different because they are designed to lead us on our own unique life paths. Therefore what is fact or truth for one, is not the truth for another. Some examples: Joe is a butcher. He grew up loving eating meat, it feels good to him, his body feels good after eating meat. If he were to refrain from eating meat he would feel weak, not so good, not so strong - his body would let him know that what he was doing in that moment was not aligned with his truth. Joe believes that it is right to eat meat and that humans should eat meat. Joe has listened to his guidance system very well - his spirit wanted him to be a butcher, this is his passion, he is also learning about respecting animals, killing animals in a respectful way and about not wasting an animal. There is plenty of spiritual growth on his path and his path is right for him. Joe will experience happiness and health in his life if he stays true to himself, does not believe those who would tell him he was wrong, and does not try to impose his truth onto others. Mary is a Naturopath. She decided to be vegetarian in her teenage years, it felt good to her. In her 20's she decided to be a vegan. Her body feels good on this diet, it is aligned with how she feels about animals, her body agrees with her alignment as does her spirit. Mary beleives that it is right to eat only plants and that this is the right diet for human beings. Mary listened to her guidance system very well - her spirit wanted her to be a Naturopath, that is her passion, she is also learning more about how to be really healthy on a vegan diet, and how to balance other people's vegan diets. She is also learning how foods can be medicine and helping people who want to make that same choice, to do it with ease. There is plenty of spiritual growth for her and her path is right for her. Mary will experience happiness and health in her life if she stays true to herself, does not believe those who would tell her she was wrong, and does not try to impose her truth onto others. The trouble starts when we don't accept that we are all right, alright? Mary could start to feel resistance to her path, she could feel insecure in it because others don't agree with her, she could think that if she applies enough pressure to others that they will learn THE truth that she has learned. I think we have all met angry vegans like this! Instead of healing her self-doubt and becoming more confident in herself, she believes that she can get confidence from outside of herself by having others validate her rightness. This story ends in misery. Likewise, Joe could start to feel resistance to his path, he could feel insecure that he will lose his livelihood and passion if too many people believe Mary. He could think that if he applies enough pressure to others that they will learn THE truth that he has learned. I think we've all seen those advertisements trying to tell us that we should all eat meat. So instead of Joe finding the security within himself and his friends around him, who will always love eating meat, he wants to find the security by getting validation from others who don't agree with him. This story ends in the closing down of his shop. Even scientists cannot escape the law of attraction and their own inner guidance systems: Bob is passionate about global warming and in proving it so that he can do something about the environmental concerns that he has. Bob is listening to his guidance system, his spirit wanted him to learn all about the environment so that he could make Earth an easier place to live in for the majority. The experiments and tests that he does will always confirm that global warming exists because the universe must give him like-energy back (Unless he is doubtful, of course). The problem occurs when he tries to convince Alice of this. Alice is also a scientist, her passion is power, she loves to find out ways to generate power from materials and generate new expansion in that area. Alice is listening to her guidance system, her spirit wants her to investigate power sources so that she can make other's amazing creations happen with that power. The experiments and tests that she does will always confirm that global warming doesn't exist because it is not aligned with her and the universe can only give her esxperiences that are aligned with her. Problems start if Alice tries to convince Bob of her rightness. And parents: George walks down the street with his daughter, she's eating an ice pop and she asks her dad what she should do with the wrapper. George tells her that she should put it in the bin. He values clean and tidy streets and wants to teach his daughter the same values. He feels that he is teaching her something that can only be perceived as right. Billy walks down the street with his son, he's eating an ice pop and he asks his dad what he should do with the wrapper. Billy tells him to throw it on the ground. Billy is unemployed, most of his friends are unemployed too, they all struggle to get by. He explains to his son that if the streets are clean then the council will not employ people like his friend Andy to pick up litter and then Andy would be out of a job and struggling again. Billy values employment and wants to teach his son the same values. He feels that he is teaching him something that can only be perceived as right. Everyone bases their point of view through their guidance system filters and their value systems. We could all accept that no matter what we are perceiving somebody else will be experiencing something completely different. There is no wrong and no right, just personal wrongs and rights, personal alignment or non-alignment. There are no correct and incorrect values. There is no one true spiritual path and false paths. There is no one true religion or faith. There is only perception and that is what makes us truly incredible creator beings! Leave your comments below. I'd love to hear about your perceptions that have been challenged. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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Like artists, musicians and anybody using their gifts, healers can often find themselves in a struggle to live their passion. Gone are the days of being taken under the wing of a religion funded by donations, healers are choosing to honour their unique spiritual paths and to help others to find their own connection to source from within themselves. This leaves each healer the task of being self-supported, which brings with it its own unique lessons. I am blessed to be a healer with a background in business. My unique combination of gifts and experience attracts healers to me. Over my many years of being a full-time healer I have helped thousands of healers to transform their own lives, empower themselves and start living their passion. There are 7 habits of highly effective healers: 1. Focus on love Healers channel universal energy. Universal energy is love. However, love is not always nice; love often delivers lessons. Healing can feel confronting and unpleasant whilst going through it. As a healer it is important to leave your ego behind. Your job is not to please people but to help people to heal. Customers will sometimes have negative emotional reactions to your work if you are doing a good job! Do not expect or require constant positive feedback. 99% of my customers who have had initial negative emotional reactions to my work have got back to me after a few weeks apologising for their behaviour saying that the truth was hard to hear. Effective healers give the help that is required, do not need praise and are not stopped by criticism. 2. Love what is A healers path is just that: a path. There is no goal, just constant growth and expansion. Through your desires you are constantly reinventing your goals and adding steps to your path. Your direction is completely your creation. As a healer you are not expected to be perfect, yet it is advisable to be constantly active on your own healing path. There will be times when you look back to see that the help that you gave someone in the past is no longer aligned with you. This is only to be expected if you are growing and expanding, constantly improving. However, those that you can help are attracted to your energy and therefore need what you offer at the time it is given. It does not serve anyone to look back with regret. Effective healers love their own unfolding and trust in what they give. 3. Believe in themselves Healers are channels and so is everybody else with any skill or knowledge in this world. Healer spirits, angels, entities,... work through healers as an equal to the healers own spirit or higher self. This means that as a healer you are not just channeling healing energy from other spirits, but also from your own spirit. Without your own desire, passion, creativity, effort, time and energy, the healing connection that you embody would not exist. You are the creative force behind what you do. The healing spirits who work with you receive as much from you as you receive from them. They get to experience the creative process through you. We are all creators, humans and pure spirit alike, and we work together as co-creators. Effective healers believe in themselves, their abilities and take ownership of their own important part in the process. 4. Are creative It is great to learn from other healers but not to copy them. Every healer has their own unique life path which has given them the experiences, the skills, the knowledge and the desire to be able to help others to heal themselves. Every healer as their own unique energy footprint and therefore attracts like-energy customers to them. There is no competition between healers who are being themselves; just cooperation. However, there can be competition between healers who are copying others. Let your own experiences forge your own healing path, let your own healing path drive your desire to help others, let the knowledge that has come from that path mold what you give. Effective healers learn as much as they can from others and offer their unique gifts to the world. 5. Take Action If you wanted to just hold the energy, or to meditate constantly, then you would have remained in the spirit form of pure consciousness. Instead, you incarnated on Earth. You did this because you wanted to experience your creativity in a more dense, physical plane. You came here to expand, learn, grow, create. Some healers think that they came here just to help others: this is not true. You came to expand your own awareness and experience in your interest area of healing as much as you came to help others. So your healing work is as self-serving as any other work that you could do. Your interest in healing at a higher self level brought you here to indulge yourself in learning more about it. Effective healers indulge themselves in healing and put all of their learning into action. 6. Allow abundance Healers often have such a focus on giving that they forget to allow themselves to receive. When there is an imbalance between giving and receiving the universe can only give lessons. Until you can allow yourself to receive the balance of energy back that you want to give, you limit the amount of energy that you can give. So if you are out of balance the universe holds those people that you could help away from you. Inbalance of giving and receiving shows up as limited funds, limited customers, yo-yoing finances, inability to reach and help more people. Abundance in plenty is available to everyone as a birth right. You do not need to prove your worth, nor in fact do anything in particular to receive it. All is required is for you to allow it. Effective healers allow the balance of giving and receiving abundance to flow. 7. Speak their truth Healer spirits want to incarnate into an experience that will ensure their direction in life. As a healer you will have chosen your parents and surroundings very carefully so that you would experience the conditions that would lead you to desire to heal yourself, to create your healing path from this desire, to follow that healing path, to gain the knowledge and experience from doing so, to pass that knowledge on to others. Your life path experience is at the core of what you can give as a healer. You attract to you those people that you are one step ahead of, so that you can help them to heal themselves in the way that you have healed yourself. The more you heal yourself, the more you can help others. Effective healers draw on their own life experience and healing to best help others to heal themselves. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Do you find that you are experiencing the same issues over and over again? The people might change, but the lessons seem to stay the same. You're working on yourself, you feel like you're learning and moving on, you feel like you've figured something out about yourself but those same issues keep coming back. This shows you that you are not getting the whole story, the full picture, you're not seeing every aspect of it and clearing it completely, you're only healing one part of the subject over and over and missing the other more important aspects of it. The 3 things that stop you from getting through these issues 1. Not working on yourself enough. I work on myself constantly. I have a daily meditation practice which gives me the clarity that I need to be able to face what I need to clear. I focus myself daily on the area that I want to move forward in and ask my angel guides to reveal all of the aspects to me. I pay close attention to what is then shown to me, books, training, products, webinars, solutions in all sorts of guises. I spend half of my day (yes, half of every day!) on actioning these signs that are shown to me. If you want to clear your issues quickly then you need to prioritise yourself and your healing and spend time on it. 2. Not getting help when the help is needed. I don't stop at the signs, reading the books, doing the training, going to the seminars, buying the products, attending the webinars, or whatever else it is. I get readings from other psychics, so that they can shed light on any other aspects of it that I am not seeing myself. I get healings from other healers, so that they can help me to shift the energy quickly so that the inner work that I'm doing is clearer and can have an immediate effect. I get weekly massages, tuning into my body to receive its messages. I believe in what I do and I get the help that is required at the very moment that I need it without hesitation. If you want to clear issues completely you need to get help when the help is needed. Too many people are given the nudge to get a reading, to get a massage, to get a healing and instead of following that sign, they put it off or do not assign the value to it or to themselves and as such miss the open door that was available to allow the healing that was present in that moment. Stop putting it off, get help today! 3. Avoiding facing the issues. I'm one of the few people that love healing myself. I love when something uncomfortable comes along, because it means that I'm ready to release something else and take leaps forward in my life. Other psychics have told me that I have excess baggage, I set my life up to experience most of the worst of the worst that life has to offer. Counsellors and psychiatrists say that it is a miracle that I am still alive. I set this life up because I have a spirit who is passionate about healing and I wanted to experience all those things, heal them within myself and help you to do the same. Facing the issues, and welcoming the issues to face them takes courage - but it takes a great deal more energy to avoid them and experience them over and over and over as a result. Facing your issues requires you to own them, to not blame others, or project them onto anyone else. It is empowering. If you want to clear issues completely and quickly you need to own them and face them fully. You created them, nobody else is doing anything to you, nobody else has creative power in your life, you are manifesting it all. Be brave, it's worth it, there are good times ahead, and more lessons but the lessons get easier and the results get better and better. Remember: ~ Prioritise yourself and your healing ~ Get help the moment you need it ~ Own your issues & face them fully Happy healing! Let us know your experiences in the comments below. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! The law of attraction states that we attract like-energy to us. This means that everything in our experience, and even everything that we witness is a reflection of what is within ourselves. Oracle cards, tarot and even horoscopes work because of the law of attraction. You get to see the card, the interpretation or the horoscope interpretation that is aligned with you in the moment that you see it. Likewise, absolutely everything in life can give you guidance as to what is in your vibration, or your energy, there are signs everywhere including Facebook! 3 years ago I had abundance issues and I was working through them. On my Facebook home page I would see many people posting about lack, complaining about the recession, talking about losing jobs, posting about how terrible it all is. Since I cleared these issues around a year ago, I haven't seen one posting about lack on my home page. The universe cannot put into my experience or even allow me to witness anything that is not abundance. Yay! A year ago I was working on family issues. On my Facebook home page I would see many people posting about issues with other people, complaining about other people, I'd see posts from my family attacking me, I'd see posts from other people attacking their families. I released the issues, empowered myself enough to say I will no longer tolerate this in my experience anymore. Guess what? I stopped seeing anyone posting complaints about or attacks on their families. Your news feed can give you big clues as to what is next for you to release in order to raise your vibration. Not only can your Facebook feed be a drama-free zone, but so can your life - and the two have to go hand in hand with each other. Take a look at your Facebook feed now. What kind of posts do you see? People complaining? People attacking each other? People asking for things? Conspiracy theorists? Which are the types of posts that trigger an emotional reaction in you? Which types of posts do you comment on with negative comments? Instead of blaming the people who have posted these things, wanting to change them (which isn't possible, you can only change yourself) take the post as a sign that you have that same issue within yourself that is ready for release. If you cull your friends who post the offending posts before you have healed the same thing within yourself, you'll just attract more new friends who have the same issues and post about the same things. Usually my Facebook feed is full of positive affirmations, cat pictures, declarations of the positive things that are going on in people's lives, beautiful pictures, great articles, some more cat pictures, quotes from great people, cat videos,... All the things that uplift me and make me feel good. However, today I saw a post which I reacted to. It was a post complaining about other people who post negative things on facebook. Instantly I saw the hypocrisy in it and commented "complaining about complainers is still complaining". It was only a few minutes later that I saw that same hypocrisy within myself. Complaining about complainers complaining about complainers is still complaining Claire! It made me aware that I still have this some of this complaining energy within me and it's ready for release. So now I ask my spirit guides to help me to release any remaining complaining from my energy. I will focus on it until I no longer have emotional reactions to people who complain, complain about complainers or complaing about complainers complaining about complainers. I'll know when I am free of complaining energy because I will no longer have an emotional reaction to it. At that point I will also stop witnessing it in others, and my Facebook feed will have to show me something new to work on! What do you see in your Facebook feeds that pushes your buttons? What do you emotionally react to? How do you have that very same energy within yourself? How can you release that energy from yourself? When you release it from yourself you will release it from your life experience and your Facebook feed. View your Facebook feed with awareness and you will get all the spiritual guidance that you need from it! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! There is a certain feeling of upliftment which comes from being in another persons presence that we call inspiration. What is this feeling of inspiration and why do we feel it? Inspiration is an uplifting feeling which comes from focusing your attention onto someone who is in close alignment with their higher self. We feel the ease of that person's being, because of their alignment, so much so that we cannot find any resistance to them within ourselves. It uplifts us, it makes us feel good, it can inspire us to decide to raise our vibration too and become more aligned with our higher selves to experience that same ease within ourselves. Compare that feeling to the feeling that you get when you come across someone who is pretending to be somebody they are not. You feel their misalignment, you feel their unease, you feel the resistance to them because of their own resistance to their own selves. It makes us feel bad. We cannot help but be mirrors to those around us. When we feel alignment in someone else we smile at that person, in our reaction to them we give them even more to feel good about. How can we inspire others? By focusing on our own energy. By being ourselves. By being the best version of ourselves that we can be. By living our passions. All of these things and more show that you are in alignment with your higher self. But that is only half of the story. To be inspiring you also need to couple that with accepting others as they are. When we accept others as they are we are in essence telling them that they are ok, they will feel good about this. However, if we do not accept others as they are, we might try to help them to raise their vibration, and in doing so we are not accepting them as they are, we are resisting them as they are, and in trying to help them we are in essence telling them that they are not ok. They feel this as the opposite of inspiring, it brings them down, it does not raise them up. Many healers want to help everybody, and in doing so make the mistake of non-acceptance of others, of resistance to others. When you look at another person and notice that they are of a lower vibration than you and you'd rather they were at a similar vibration to you and you try to help them to do that, you are in resistance and this will only have a negative effect on them and on yourself. It is no better than trying to drag someone down, you have noticed the difference in vibration between you and them and instead of changing your own vibration you are trying to change theirs - which is impossible and is pure resistance. However, if you focus on holding your own energy, focusing on your own alignment with your higher self, whilst accepting all others where they are, then that very same person will be uplifted and inspired by you. It might give them the nudge to decide to want to raise their vibration, they might even come to you for help in raising their vibration. When giving the help that has been instigated and requested by another person, you can truly help them and inspire them. It is quite usual to feel the difference of vibration of another person and feel a resistance to that. We, as humans, have improved in this regard, most of us now accept the difference in vibration of colour of skin without resistance, most of us now accept the difference in vibration of gender without resistance, most of us now accept the difference in vibration of sexual preference without resistance,... We can take this further and fine tune ourselves so that we accept more differences in vibration. We all have unique vibrations. No 2 people have the same vibration. Although it feels nicer to us when we are focused on someone who is a similar vibration to us, if we have resistance, in time we will find out what those vibrational differences are and reject the person for them! However, if we foster acceptance of the differences in vibration, then we do not push others away. You can only truly inspire and help others when you are more focused on your own self & own journey than on others. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! |
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