The Dark Side of Please & Thank You

Being polite and grateful are often seen as high vibrations and a good thing, but they are more often than not negative vibrations and they can hide deep issues.

"Please will you read and comment on this blog?"

The word please is seen as a polite addition to a request.

The word plead is seen as begging for your request to be completed by another.

However, there is very little difference between the energy or vibration of both please and plead.

When you have low self-esteem, low self-worth, and have low confidence in yourself you are likely to expect your requests to be ignored. Adding a please or a plead to your requests is trying to counteract your negative expectation to make it into a positive expectation, yet it doesn't work.

It doesn't work because you cannot change a negative vibration into a positive one with words. 

Pleading or pleasing for someone to fulfil your request highlights that there is a negative expectation vibration within you, which in turn shows that there is an underlying issue within you.

Someone who is confident in themselves, who allows themselves to receive from others, who gives freely and who has high self-worth will make requests without pleading for them to be fulfilled, without even pleasing for them to be fulfilled: their positive expectation gives off a positive vibe and positive vibes produce positive results and positive reactions in others.

A queen, who is very confident in her worthiness to receive, will not add a please to every request she makes "Off with their head! Please" It diminishes the energy of the sentence.

We've all heard a negative vibration please before "Please can you get off my foot?" It doesn't feel good.

We've all seen a passive-agressive note before "Please get yourself some parking lessons. K Thanks" It doesn't feel good.

Politeness, pleases and thank you's are often a sign of deep insecurity especially in those who insist that others use manners in this way.

The words thank you are seen as a partner to the vibration of gratitude. Let me burst that bubble for you!

You're struggling financially. You are in a vibration of lack. You say a quiet "thank you" to everything that you receive. That thank you vibration has a little gratitude vibration in it, but it's just a side dish to this vibration "I'm so glad I got this little thing because there is lack and there's not much more coming and I'm so grateful to be receiving this little thing that I don't deserve. I hope that brings some more to me." - It will not bring more, it will just send abundance running away from your vibe.

Your partner finally takes the bins out "Thank you!" (At last, the lazy good for nothing) very little true gratitude there.

Billy and Jenny are having an argument over the ownership of a pencil. Billy thinks it's his. Jenny thinks it's hers. A teacher steps in and makes a decision for them "It's Jenny's, Billy give the pencil to Jenny" Billy gives the pencil to Jenny and Jenny says "Thank you" (I told you so, I'm right)

There are more occasions that each and every one of us uses a negative vibration "thank you" than there are occasions that we use a pure gratitude vibration "thank you"

Negative vibrational thank you's also show deep insecurities, the need to be right, unworthiness and all kinds of things.

What is behind your need for requiring politeness?

What is the real vibration of your please?

What is the real vibration of your thank you?

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​I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self.

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