Your reality is personal.
Nobody else's world is the same as yours.
We all have unique energy patterns made from our thoughts, beliefs, behaviours, words & actions. These energy patterns attract like-energy to them.
So we might attract 10 people who are similar to us in one way or another - but nobody matches us perfectly, that would be impossible. We are unique vibrations of source.
Our own personal reality is a reflection of our selves, therefore if you want to make external changes in your reality, the only way to change it is by changing yourself.
You cannot mould your external world, change others, change society, you can only change yourself.
You've probably heard all that before, but what does it mean on a practical level?
It means that when you want to attract new circumstances, new kinds of people, a new job, whatever it is that you want to change, you must change yourself to match the characteristics of what you want.
Let's say that you want some new friends because you are growing and changing and the friends you have around you drag you back down to where you were and no longer want to be.
1. Decide exactly what the new friends that you want will be like. What are their characteristics? How old are they? What do they do? What do they wear? Where do they go? What do they talk about? Go into as much detail as you can.
2. Once you have a complete picture of the new friends that you want, take every single detail and apply it to yourself. Learn and have those same characteristics, start doing what they do, wear the clothes that they wear, go to the places that they go, start talking about the same things as they will talk about, etc.
3. Stop doing all the things that you used to do, say, wear, go, etc. Let everything else that isn't what you want go.
You might think that this will just make sure that you randomly bump into those new friends because you will be doing the same things and therefore the random meeting will be more likely, but that's not true.
This will change your energy so that you start to attract people with like energy into your life. This is at a subtle energetic level that everyone can perceive. You know that feeling when you just click with someone? When you feel comfortable in someone's presence? That is the law of attraction at work.
You can do this same practice for anything you want in your life.
Want more money? What do people with more money do, say, wear, go, live, etc.? Be that! Let everything else go!
Want a new job? What do people with that new job do, say, wear, go, etc.? Be that! Let everything else go!
Want a significant relationship? What would your dream partner be like? Be that! Let everything else go!
It's a simple process but it takes the courage to pretend for a while, and to let go of old behaviours, people, friends, jobs, thoughts, clothes, etc.
Share below what you would most like to change and what changes you will make in yourself to attract what you want. I'd love to hear and help you!
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8/7/2013 12:45:54 am
Firstly, great blog - food for thought :-) For me personally, I want to change how I view the world, I want to grow spiritually so I have started to appreciate the little things, I smile even when I don't feel like smiling, I treat others now how I want to be treated, I have started to buy crystals and create intentions and visions that will help me and others who need my help. I want to follow my life purpose so I have started to heal myself so I can heal others too. I am not sure if I am doing it right, but I am sure that I will get it right xoxo
8/7/2013 12:52:36 am
10/7/2013 02:21:40 pm
You think out of the box, and that's what I enjoyed about this post. It is true, that in order to change your world, changing your physical environment really helps. And changing your physical environment can change your energy. I never would have believed it seven years ago, but after making many changes, it's just all so true. Thanks for the post!
11/7/2013 12:05:50 am
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