How to accept what is
If we accept what is are we telling the universe that we are ok with things not changing? How do we even accept what is anyway when we don't like what is?
Accepting what is, it's a tricky subject because our ego naturally wants to fight everything it doesn't like, it wants to protect us from it. That works great for navigating sheer drop cliffs, sabre tooth tiger encounters & dodging out of the way of a falling tree. But it doesn't work so well or jobs, people, behaviours, relationships, relationshits, money, & pretty much everything we deal with in our every day lives.
The universe brings us more of everything we are focused on, especially if we power our focus with an intense emotional state. So, fighting things we don't like, trying to get rid of them, pushing them away, protesting them, yelling about them, continually posting on Facebook about it,... it all brings more of it to us faster.
So how do we accept things that we don't like?
1. Accept that something exists for someone who wants that.
You might not like war, you can't see any good reason to have wars, but you can accept that wars exist because some people want them. You only need to look at the amount of war movies that are made to see that a lot of human beings are interested in war, they want it, they are excited by it, they can justify going into war, they have a good reason for it, so war must exist for those warrior souls who like that stuff. It doesn't mean you have to get involved, you don't have to sign up for the army, you don't have to infiltrate the government to stop it, you don't even have to think about it. You can accept that it exists, much the same way as brussel sprouts exist, they taste horrible but some people like them, I accept that they exist, I wouldn't choose to eat them, I hardly ever think about them (watch me manifest them now!)
2. Accept that you manifested it.
You might not want to admit it, but you created it, you imagined something into being, you focused on it, you worried about it, you were scared of it happening, you read about it, you talked about it, you believed it, you thought about it. Even if someone else gave you that thought or that belief, you still chose to pick it up & run with it. Sure our minds are hard to control, it's hard to stop thinking about things that we don't want, but we all still do it & we get the results of that. So we might as well accept that we created it, but not in a self-deprecating way like "Oh I did it again! I'm an idiot!" in an accepting way like "Oops I did it again, let me have another go!"
3.Accept your choices.
Everyone has free will. We get to choose what we want in life. Nothing is imposed on us. It might seem like it is if we go along with what others want of us. But we can opt out, we can say no, we can move somewhere else, we can choose not to be friends with that person, we can stop shopping there, we can leave that job, we can choose better for ourselves. Accepting responsibility of choice removes victim mentality. You have free will. You chose it all, even if you chose it unconsciously. Accept that & then you will be able to choose better for yourself.
4. Accept others behaviour.
It's their stuff not yours. You might think that it's about you, but really their behaviour is about them. If you think someone has hurt you, what has really happened is that you expected them to be different & they broke your expectations. People are going to be themselves. When you accept that, then you can let go of the false idea that they are wrong for being themselves or that who they are has anything to do with you. Be more selective, see people for who they are, who they show you they are & choose who you would like to be around because there are literally 7.7 billion people to choose from & they aren't all narcissists, or cheats, or liars, or whatever it is you keep finding. Accept that they will be who they are, instead of fighting who they are being, or trying to change them & you will allow yourself to attract the kinds of people you would prefer.
"Oops, I did it again, let me have another go!"
What did you manifest again? How can you accept it instead now so that you can have another go? Share in the comments below.
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28/7/2019 11:32:32 pm
What a fantastic article.
30/7/2019 07:05:22 am
You're welcome & thank you for your lovely words =)
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