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Blame keeps you stuck, personal responsibility empowers you.

17/3/2013

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When something in your life feels overwhelming, more than you can handle, the first reaction that we all tend to have is to blame someone or something else for it.

There is a good reason to do this - it makes us feel better. Blame feels better than overwhelm.

But there is something that feels even better that that - empowerment.

We can blame our parents for teaching us something, a partner for not being who we wanted them to be, our body for its shortcomings, someone that tried to help us for not succeeding, ... Worst of all we can blame ourselves for things going wrong, or us not getting what we want.


But ultimately blame blocks you from moving forward. You are the only creative force in your own life. Everything that you experience, or don't experience, happens because it's a match to your energy, or not.


The only person who can change your energy is you, through changing your mind, your thoughts, your beliefs and your emotional or energetic state.


There is nothing that you cannot achieve if you take responsibility for your life and intend to change what you are creating in your life. This requires you to really want to change, anything less that total determination will not do, it won't cause a change.

I noticed this weekend that although I had been asking for more income for a long time, that extra income never came UNLESS I had something to put it to good use for - this wasn't because the universe will only give me money for a good use, but because I had no determination to make the changes that were required unless I had a good use for it. 

I realised that I was just wanting extra money for no specific purpose, yet I could never have a holiday, nor own a house, nor get my teeth fixed, nor many things that are actual needs that I have. Once I realised this, and realised that I need to earn 3 times the amount I earn now, I have determination, I have good reason to do it and I won't settle for what I was settling for before.


What are you settling for? 

What are you blaming something or someone for?

What do you really want? 

Why do you REALLY want it? 
If you can't convince yourself then you'll never convince the universe to give it to you!

Are you determined to get it?

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​I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self.

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