We all have beliefs around what is expected of us, and these beliefs leave us with a sense of duty for others. This sense of duty can keep us in relationships and experiences that do not serve us. This sense of duty makes it impossible for us to release those things that we really should release.
It's important to know that you are a creator spirit here to create within your own life alone. You are here to learn, to grow and to manifest whatever you want within your life.
You have not been put on this planet to help everyone else, you do not have a duty to do anything for anyone else, you cannot create in anyone else's experiences no matter how hard you try. You only have a duty to yourself. This false sense of duty keeps us attached to people who are not aligned with ourselves, and in doing so we hold ourselves back from our next steps. It's ok to let go, release the sense of duty for others and focus on yourself.
There is a misconception going around that giving makes us happy. Giving doesn't make us happy. Giving can make us happy, it can also make us resentful, giving in and of itself is not the cause of happiness, it is as balanced in the benefits and drawbacks as everything else is in life.
What does bring us happiness is being aligned with our spirits, living our passion, sharing our passion and when you are doing that, you will not only be happy but you will be sharing your true gifts with the world and will be giving and receiving so much more than could ever be possible by just giving.
Allow yourself to align with your life's purpose. Allow yourself to focus on that instead of on other people. Allow yourself to release any false sense of duty or responsibility to others. Allow them to be empowered and responsible for their own lives instead. Be selfish for a while and before long you will find yourself sharing more of yourself than ever.
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