I've heard it said that we attract everyone into our lives because we are somehow in alignment with them. However, I have seen & experienced that this is not true. It can be true, but ONLY if we are going with the flow of the law of attraction. 3 days ago I was in a friend's restaurant, I was in there for a couple of hours but one moment I felt to go say hi to him. When I did he was crying with joy he was so happy, he had just received amazing news & he was high flying. That was a reflection of my vibration. I could have gone to say hi to him when I first arrived if I believed that I "should" have, but I didn't, I went with the flow & the encounter happened when JOY was present. Many years ago I had repeated bad experiences with my family because I thought I "should" be around them, somehow fix the relationships, I "should" have been able to hold my vibration to make everything alright. I couldn't. It was impossible. They were always themselves no matter what my focus. I carried the weight of that on my back for so long until I gave up. On giving up I just didn't have those kinds of encounters with them or anyone else like them anymore. I didn't feel the need to sacrifice myself, my happiness, my life, to be around them. I lost my "should" & suddenly I was in the flow of all the good stuff. I was meditating 2 weeks ago & received a lesson about this subject. Our vibration is constantly changing, one hour we can be joyful, the next hour we might be fearful, etc. As we flow with these feelings we attract a match to what we are being. So we attract those who are joyful, or the joyful part of someone (to the point of their OWN personal ability to be able to reach that vibration) when we are in the joyful vibration, as long as we allow ourselves to be around those who are flowing with us instead of forcing ourselves to be with family, friends, lovers, husbands, people in need, or whoever else we feel we "should" be around. Likewise, we attract those who are fearful, or the fearful part of someone (to the point of their OWN personal ability to reach for fear) when we feel fear, as long as we are flowing with life & are not forcing ourselves to be around those we think we "should" be with. The same goes for any experience in life, jobs, places, customers, businesses, restaurants, anything. If we think we "should" be there or go there or do that & that is not where are good feelings are directing us to, then we buck the current of the law of attraction. The good things that the universe has for you are NEVER found in the "shoulds" Share your experiences & ah ha's in the comments below I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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Have you ever noticed that the better you feel the better life gets? Have you ever been getting ready to go on a night out & you are so excited you just know it is going to be an epic night, then it is? Have you ever noticed how easy it is to manifest something that is just fun? You want a panda suit for a dress up party & then bam you stumble across one. You want to go away for a fun weekend with friends & then bam you manifest the money to do it. You really want to go to that event & the universe just seems to line up so that you can go do it. Then on the flip side have you noticed how hard it is to manifest things that are not fun? Like manifesting the money for bills that make you feel terrible? Like manifesting an outfit to wear to work or school when you can't really wear what you want, but you have to wear their uniform? Like finding a replacement for that washing machine hose that broke the other day? There's a reason for all of this: You are an electromagnetic being. You attract your life experiences from your thoughts (electric) & your feelings (magnetic). Thoughts are straight forward, think about what you want, not what you don't want & you will attract it. Don't think about the drama of not getting it, think about already having it. Use your imagination to think about what you really want to live. Feelings are straight forward too. The better you feel the stronger your magnet. Joy, fun, laughter, love,... they attract things so fast like a really powerful magnet. So how can you feel great about manifesting the money to pay off that debt, when it's not fun, it doesn't make you laugh, you don't love it? It's not by pretending that salads are hilarious, you can't fool the universe by pretending to feel something that you don't feel. It's not by going into the bank laughing & pretending it's so much fun to be paying off your debt. It's by putting YOU & how YOU feel first. So you might THINK the most important thing you NEED to manifest is to pay off that debt, but if you go within truthfully and ask yourself what you really want, what does your heart really want? What will truly make you feel joyful? It's that new bikini, or that trip away with friends, or that gorgeous dress you saw in that shop, or that event, ... You know deep down that you don't want to ignore your debt, or that washing machine hose, or that uniform you need to buy, because that would make you feel guilty about the joy you are having with your new bikini, dress, on that trip away with your friends. You want it all! This is the key. To have it all requires you to know that you can. When you know that you can you will change your asking to include it all. For example, you won't ask for $60 for a new bikini, you'll ask for $560 for all the bills which will leave you enough left over for that new bikini. In this way you have prioritised what makes you feel good so that you DO feel good AND you have made sure that the stuff that will make you feel bad if you ignore it is taken care of too. The prize is the bikini, the path takes care of everything else. This is abundance thinking. Just manifesting one thing, the most serious, the most pressing, the scariest, is SOOOOO hard to do, in fact it's impossible, your thoughts are likely to be on the drama of not getting it & your feelings are like that post stick note that falls off the fridge. So write down the whole list of what you want & ask for it all. Set your prize to be those things that make you feel AWESOME & know the other stuff will be taken care of along the way. This shift can have instant manifestation results, so be sure to share in the comments below your ah-ha & your manifestations! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! If your religion keeps you in poverty then there is something wrong with your religion. I have witnessed more "spiritual" people in poverty than any other religious group. This means that the collective general beliefs that "spiritual" people have block off their prosperity. You create what you believe. What you believe you deserve & what you believe is possible. 18 years ago I was a wealthy woman. I was earning a lot of money. I had great things. I always seemed to choose the right investments that multiplied my money fast. But I also had emotional issues from abuse that I needed to heal. This need brought me to "spiritual" people. This is when my prosperity turned into poverty, it happened very fast too. Because along with the soothing & the beliefs that were helping me to heal my emotional issues from abuse, I was also listening to & believing in the negative beliefs about wealth. So my blessings stopped, my manifestations stopped, I could no longer magically pick amazing investments, my money dwindled to zero & then I only ever had enough to survive on. In the last 6 years I have healed this in myself. In my quest for healing I actually picked up more issues that required healing! The beliefs that plummeted me into poverty were: That I am not powerful. That I shouldn't seek to be appreciated or thanked. That it's wrong to want & have wealth. That the world is broken & the source of most of the problems are the rich. That material things are not spiritual. Amongst others. What I know now is that when I am using my true power, my mind, in a positive way, by thinking positive thoughts that make me feel good, & my emotional state, feeling love, good feelings, joy & my beliefs are that of love & perfection in ALL, incredible manifestations happen every single day & they include money manifestations. One of the greatest changes in my manifestation ability came when I learned to love myself. It was my belief in myself that was the last key that unlocked all of my blessings. So if you think "The ultra rich are causing poverty" & you don't realise that YOU CREATE WHAT YOU BELIEVE, meaning that it is YOUR beliefs that cause your poverty & THEIR beliefs that cause their ultra richness. Nobody else's beliefs can affect your experience in any way UNLESS you listen to them & believe them too, as I had. So thinking that the ultra rich (or banks, or anyone else) are causing your poverty is like thinking that the ultra healthy are causing your sickness, you understand easily that it makes no sense that someone else's health, their eating, their exercise, their belief in their body's ability to heal, their looking after themselves has anything to do with your health, your eating, your exercise, your belief in your body's ability to heal, your looking after yourself. So why believe that money is any different? Because it really isn't. We have a power in ourselves that is the most powerful force on this planet & that power is our mind & our emotions. When we think & feel right, right meaning aligning with our higher selves thoughts, aligning with source, magical miracles & manifestations happen every day. We need to have our own spiritual practices that keep us from picking up on the negativity around us, so that we can be in alignment with OURSELVES & not follow blindly follow a religion or any group's negative beliefs. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Everybody has the gift of intuition. Like any other gift it gets stronger the more we use it. In order to use our intuition we must trust it & follow it. When we feel into a decision we have to make we can feel whether something feels good or not so good. This is our intuitive indicator that leads us on our life path, the path of ease & joy. Surrendering to all that feels heavy & choosing fun instead will have you firmly on this path of ease & joy. Know that you it's okay to turn your back on anything that feels like it drains you or takes your energy away from the joyful energy that you deserve to feel & choose those things that feel like fun, play or joy instead. If there are things that need to be done or handled that feel heavy or take your energy down, it’s time to change them, reframe them in your mind, or change the way you do it so it has a new & fun edge to it. Make the essential mundane chores into a game. When you’re having a good time & choosing the joyful option in every moment, you get into the flow & great things come your way; people will be jealous. That’s their problem. That’s their misalignment. It’s not your problem. Your only job is to stay in alignment. Your only problem in this situation is how you react to their jealous reaction. You can choose to release responsibility for their emotional state, claim the power over your own emotional state & accept that other people will be misaligned when you are aligned. You wouldn’t feel bad about those who are exhaling when you’re taking an in breath would you? For some personal guidance from your higher self click here & book in for a reading with me today I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Sat in my favourite cafe I turned around to see this sign. "Crew required. Experience preferred." Aquarius is a 62 foot yacht that takes people on sail/snorkel trips to the nearby low isles & then takes people out on a sunset sail. As I lived on a 60 foot yacht for a year until May this year & was a dive/snorkel guide previously, I went in to ask about the position. This sign wasn't my only sign. In the 3 days previous to seeing this final sign I had had 3 yachts almost bump into me, which is quite a feat considering I've been on land! As each came so close to me I thought "I miss sailing. I miss the yacht. It's time for me to get back out on the water" 2 days after seeing this sign I worked a 12 hour trial shift on the yacht. I sailed it, took a group snorkeling, served breaky, lunch & drinks, took photos, went to the beach on the island, cleaned up the yacht & had so much fun! At the end of the day they gave me the job, not only that but told me I would be paid for my trial day, which is unusual, but I had been a full active crew member I had so much experience already. Now I get paid to do what I love, to do what I had been doing anyway for fun & I will run my online business when I'm not on the yacht, trusting the universe to blend them seamlessly together. I might shoot the weekly readings from it if I have time, too! In order to let this opportunity in I had to do plenty of letting go of how I thought it should be or what I thought I should be doing. I had all kinds of resistances to working for someone else (failure to be only an entrepreneur), tying myself to one place (lack of freedom), expectations of me living on a yacht again (even though I didn't like the isolation of it full time on a yacht anyway) or it looking a different way than this. I worked through all of these resistances & let go. I stopped trying to push my business or trying to find somewhere to give my readings in person here (not in the flow: couldn't find one) & then when I finally let go, admitting to the universe that I don't know, this showed up. I knew it was my next step because it filled me with so much joy I've been jumping up & down 😀 Do you want help with the resistances to your next joyful step? Get a reading & your higher self will help you through it. Click here to book in today. Let's get you on the next joyful step of your life path, too! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! |
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