Are you putting up with less than the best of the best? I was! Every new moon I write down what I want to create in my life and I look at what I wrote the previous month checking which I have created and which I haven't even acted on yet. This month I wrote "Get my teeth fixed" and when I looked at last month it was on there too. Oops! I had in fact acted on it a little, I had taken the first step and had contacted a dentist that I was intuitively attracted to. They had agreed to give me a special offer for my first visit considering the amount of work that I need doing. I had their generous offer sat in my email inbox inviting me to call to arrange my appointment and I hadn't got around to it yet. My reason: I wasn't sure I'd have the spare money NOW. Approximately 8 years ago I was eating crinkle cut salt and vinegar chips and as I bit down the chips got a whole lot crunchier! My tooth was falling apart and I spat out the chips of potato along with tooth into the sink. It was scary. Apparently my tooth had been decaying inside whilst pretending it was all good on the outside. My nerves were hurting on that side of my mouth so I went to see the free dentist because I was a single parent of 3 kids with a limited income at the time. He filled the gaps and told me to wait until the nerves had settled down and stopped hurting before I came back. I never went back. That was 8 years ago and ever since I have chewed predominantly on the other side of my mouth to avoid the nerves screaming at me. I have been a master at avoidance. 2 months ago I felt like it was time to get my teeth fixed properly so I put it on my new moon list and took the first step straight away, but didn't go any further than that due to fear of lack. This new moon, Thursday, I wrote it again and that same night I bit down on a cashew nut and my tooth hurt again. I didn't think much of it because it stopped hurting. On Friday night I was driving back from dropping my partner at work and my face started to set on fire. From my temple to my jaw, from my ear to the centre of my face, intense pain, so much so I didn't think I would be able to get home. I did get home and I did some serious deep breathing when I arrived. I couldn't sleep, each day the pain got gradually less and less but not low enough to ignore it. I called the dentist. I had had 5 sleepless nights by the time I got to see the dentist and I WAS SCARED! The nerves had gone from a 10 on the pain scale to about a 4 and there I was going to allow someone to touch the tooth that would scream 10 at me again when they did. Yet I knew that this needed doing. I also had a thought during that week that went something like this "Wouldn't it be nice to have a dentist who could help with my jaw tightness too, a holistic face/teeth/jaw doctor." and this "Wouldn't it be nice to have a dentist who wrote out a plan of action with the prices on it so that I can manifest and schedule" The dentist visit was unlike any I have ever had before. My new dentist Alison examined my mouth and teeth thoroughly, picking up on the tightness in my jaw on the left side before I even told her about it. She said that she wanted to write a plan of action for me with all the work that she could do so that I could book in for it when I was ready. I love the way the universe gives me exactly what I ask for. She took numerous x-rays of my teeth to find out what was really going on and she saw that not only was my problem tooth split vertically, it had also been filled so it prised the gap open, right across the nerve. This hadn't just caused all of my pain over the years but it had caused the tooth and nerves to be in defence mode. I had been putting up with the pain of botched free dental work FOR 8 YEARS. It was then that I realised that I deserved the best. I deserved the best of the best. No more putting up with pain, or less than. She extracted the tooth, there was no saving it, now I'm in recovery and my next appointment is in 3 weeks to do the next work. What have you been putting up with? Do you deserve the best of the best? (PS the answer is YES!) Share your ah-has in the comments below I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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Your reality is personal. Nobody else's world is the same as yours. We all have unique energy patterns made from our thoughts, beliefs, behaviours, words & actions. These energy patterns attract like-energy to them. So we might attract 10 people who are similar to us in one way or another - but nobody matches us perfectly, that would be impossible. We are unique vibrations of source. Our own personal reality is a reflection of our selves, therefore if you want to make external changes in your reality, the only way to change it is by changing yourself. You cannot mould your external world, change others, change society, you can only change yourself. You've probably heard all that before, but what does it mean on a practical level? It means that when you want to attract new circumstances, new kinds of people, a new job, whatever it is that you want to change, you must change yourself to match the characteristics of what you want. Let's say that you want some new friends because you are growing and changing and the friends you have around you drag you back down to where you were and no longer want to be. 1. Decide exactly what the new friends that you want will be like. What are their characteristics? How old are they? What do they do? What do they wear? Where do they go? What do they talk about? Go into as much detail as you can. 2. Once you have a complete picture of the new friends that you want, take every single detail and apply it to yourself. Learn and have those same characteristics, start doing what they do, wear the clothes that they wear, go to the places that they go, start talking about the same things as they will talk about, etc. 3. Stop doing all the things that you used to do, say, wear, go, etc. Let everything else that isn't what you want go. You might think that this will just make sure that you randomly bump into those new friends because you will be doing the same things and therefore the random meeting will be more likely, but that's not true. This will change your energy so that you start to attract people with like energy into your life. This is at a subtle energetic level that everyone can perceive. You know that feeling when you just click with someone? When you feel comfortable in someone's presence? That is the law of attraction at work. You can do this same practice for anything you want in your life. Want more money? What do people with more money do, say, wear, go, live, etc.? Be that! Let everything else go! Want a new job? What do people with that new job do, say, wear, go, etc.? Be that! Let everything else go! Want a significant relationship? What would your dream partner be like? Be that! Let everything else go! It's a simple process but it takes the courage to pretend for a while, and to let go of old behaviours, people, friends, jobs, thoughts, clothes, etc. Share below what you would most like to change and what changes you will make in yourself to attract what you want. I'd love to hear and help you! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! In order to allow more abundance into your life you need to understand how the universe works and your true value in it. Without fail every single customer who comes to me for help with abundance has the same problem: low self-worth, beliefs about whether she even deserves to receive or even if it's right for her to want anything. Visualise this: You are here with a purpose, a passion, something that you love and want to share with the world, and that can be found by following a path. To stay on that path requires you to do only what you love - you get those feelings of love and passion in order to guide you on that path. It's essential that you allow yourself to do that, knowing that the universe will supply everything for you on that path, so no need to be afraid. Your higher self sees you like a surgeon. You are in an operation, totally focused on what you are doing (your path), you don't for one moment take your eyes off the operation that you are performing, you have full focus on what you are doing. When you need something, whether it's a scalpel, some suction, your brow wiped, or a sit down, a break, your nose scratched, some music on, you put your hand out and say the thing that you need "scalpel" and it is placed immediately in your hand. No request is too personal, you don't only need to ask for things that are for the operation, you can ask for whatever will make you most comfortable or for whatever will make you happiest in that moment. This is exactly how the universe works. Your only job is to focus on your path, on what you are doing and ask for everything you need and desire along the way to make that as easy and enjoyable as possible for you. The universe will supply absolutely everything if you know you're allowed to ask, know that you deserve it, know that it's your place to ask, as long as you then ask for it and put your hand out expecting to receive it instantly. However, this is how most people live due to fear and learning how to live in fear from others: The surgeon goes into the operating theatre and begins the operation, getting distracted whilst worrying if she can do this operation, if it will turn out ok, if she's even doing the right thing in the first place. She needs a scalpel first of all, so she turns to her team, makes her excuses and says "I'm just going to the shops to get a scalpel, can I get you all anything while I'm there?" She goes off to the shop, to get her own scalpel with her own energy and her own money, and she spends her own energy and money on things for other people that were there to HELP AND SERVE HER, then she heads back to her operation with her scalpel, makes sure everyone else is ok, and then goes back to the operation, again, feeling nervous as to whether she's doing the right thing,… Does that ring any bells? Allowing abundance into your life requires you to realise who you are, your place in the universe and that the universe IS ABUNDANCE and is waiting for you to take your rightful place in it. Will you do that? I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Allowing more in your life comes from realising your worth and letting go of "I'm not worthy" self-judgments. I'm on a particularly testing and enjoyable self-worth trip at the moment. My spiritual guides take me down these self-growth paths not only for me to heal, release and move forward within myself, but to teach others how to do the same. This self-worth journey is testing because lack of self-worth is the root cause of all of our problems in life, therefore in order to find out, realise and face these issues we need to be shown how these issues manifest. When we are shown it can feel yucky. It can feel like someone else is doing it to us. It can feel like our parents telling us that we are not worthy, or whoever else it was that taught us this low self-worth pattern. The self-worth journey is also enjoyable because in every step up, in every issue that is release and moved beyond, there is a gift, there is more allowed into your life. The universe or source or God IS abundance and gives us the amount of abundance that we allow into our lives, so as soon as you allow it - it comes. If you aren't experiencing abundance in one area of your life - you are not allowing it in, every time, no exception. I bought my partner some new work boots because he needed them. I got him the best, the boots that would last him for many years, because that is the sensible thing to do. Then I bought myself some good quality things and felt guilty about them. I had spent less money on myself than I had on him: I didn't feel bad about getting him the boots, so why feel bad about getting myself something? I confronted the feeling. I fully felt it in order to find out what it was. The reason I felt bad about spending the money on myself was that I thought that I didn't need the things I was buying: I just wanted them. This was a particularly interesting discovery for me. Apparently I don't think that my appearance is important, yet I have been shown time and time again that it is. Apparently I don't think that me living a full life is important. Apparently I don't think that I need great things although I want others to have them. I delved deeper around my idea of what I need and what I don't need. I found that I have lower need expectations for myself than I do for others. My list of allowed items that I need is a very short list. The worst thing is that I used to think that this was a good thing, I thought it was admirable to disallow myself, I thought it was a noble thing to shun abundance. What I didn't realise was that I was turning my back on source. I was just only allowing myself a little because of how I felt about myself, and that wasn't good. Ego is the voice inside of us all that is a trickster. The ego tries to make us feel better when we feel fear. The ego tells us to do something or avoid something in order to make us feel better. We're all used to hearing the word ego used to describe someone who feels bad about themselves and so wants to buy something blingy to feel better about themselves right? But what about ego to describe someone who feels bad about themselves and wants to deny themselves something to feel better about themselves? It's the same thing. We can only be free of ego when we allow ourselves what we need and want, not to make us feel better, but because we already feel good and know our worth. I realised that I allowed myself to have a car when my kids were with me and I needed (there's that word again) to taxi them around. But I sold my car when they weren't around, because I didn't need it. So my children deserve a car, but I don't? How did I come to that logic? Through my lack of self-worth, that's how. Now I'm allowing myself a car and looking for one, my way of doing that and anything else is saying "Car now please thanks universe" and watching what I am shown next. The universe showed me an Aston Martin Vanquish 3 times, that's enough for me to know that it was a sign. It's a beautiful car and not really being into cars in a big way, beauty and colour are about all that is important to me in a car. Luxury and excellence are way up on my list of requirements for everything, too. I went along with the universe on this one and went to see the Vanquish. It is even more beautiful than in pictures and is the epitome of excellence, which is something I strive for within myself and something I want to support in others with my money, intention, time and any other energy focus I can muster. This car is made by hand. Only 500 are made a year. There is currently a waiting list of 9 months to have one made to your specifications, and this is the kind of car that you want built exactly as you want it. It takes 1 month to build, and do I want to fly over to the UK to watch mine being built? YES I DO! Then it takes 2 months to ship here. It is a bullet proof (handy?), fibreglass car, hence it being handmade and allowing them to achieve the incredible shape that it is. Incidentally, the only other car that I have loved for its beauty is the new VW Beetle and that is made from plastic to achieve the shapes that it does. The interior of the car is leather or suede - you can choose, and it is hand stitched. The interior is not just the seats, but all of the interior - the dashboard, the roof, everything. Sitting in one of these cars you can feel the love and the excellence that has gone into each one. They are made by people aligned with their higher selves, people who are aligned with excellence and abundance, people who are so passionate about cars they want to make the best in the world, that is for sure. It felt right for me. I didn't feel out of place. It didn't push any self-worth buttons in me. The sales rep was friendly, personable, completely understood my complete disregard for what was under the bonnet, and agreed with me that it is the most beautiful car in the world. He also agreed that although new VW Beetle to Vanquish seemed a big leap if you have only eyes like this: $ $, when looking with eyes of pure beauty, it's the next logical step. I will need to wait 12 months for my new handmade car, and in the meantime I will get myself another Beetle, because I need a car, not because I need to drive other worthier people around, not because I need it to get myself to work, but because I am worthy of having something to make my life bigger and better than the smaller version of my life that I was allowing previously. The leap of faith in putting $50,000 deposit down on a car that will cost me $500,000 in 12 months time is a big one, but one that I am willing to take. It will be my biggest financial leap of faith yet, but I know that this is what I'm being asked to do and I've not been led astray yet by my guides! This is my biggest test in allowing and one that I know I need to take in order to be an example to everyone that everything is just energy and we can have whatever we allow. I'm not ready to dive in right now, maybe next week I will. I know that I need to feel no fear, I need to be fully aligned before I take action, which means only feeling good about it. I feel almost there. More meditation required. PS. I knew you wanted to know ladies, it's all we really care about in cars eh? Blue, like the top picture, but with a black suede interior similar to the last picture. What self-judgements do you make that stop you from having what you really want? What is your list of needs like? Should it be bigger and longer? Do you want and expect more for others than for yourself? Would you like to be able to deal with people who are tuned into their higher selves, into excellence and into abundance? Would you like to have access to the best services, products and innovations? Are you being the best at what you do? Is excellence importance in what you offer to the world? Take careful note of the buttons that this blog pushed in you for your clues! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! The art of allowing requires action, and once action is taken, the universe steps up to give you more of what you allowed yourself. You might recall in last week's blog I bought myself a new bag. The bag stretched me, financially and out of my comfort zone. But once I had got it I felt better about myself. I was happy with my bag and it made me feel beautiful. Yesterday I decided that I'd like a little bag with a wrist loop to use when I go out - now I have a bigger bag that is too big to be taking out on evenings out. After dropping off my man at work I went to the local outlet mall to look for one. I went into a normal bag shop and I didn't much like the little bags in there. Then I came across a Fossil shop that I had looked in last week when I was buying my first bag, I loved the bags but they were out of my budget. They were having a massive sale. The shop was packed with people. The discounts were incredible at 75% discount and more. There were so many amazing little bags with wrist loops, but I whittled my selection down from 5 to my favourite. I looked at my once beautiful purse, which was discoloured from getting wet and decided while the prices were this amazing I'd treat myself to a new purse too. I really enjoyed shopping, and that feeling is quite new for me. I allowed an assistant to help me choose, and that is a big step for me, too. I chose my purse and went home very happy with $200 worth of bag and purse for just $60. I took the photo above and enjoyed filling my new purse up. Then a feeling of excitement took over me. When I had been in the shop, the staff were talking to people around me saying "Are you back for more?" I realised that I needed to go back for more. I hadn't looked at the handbags and I knew that I loved them last week, when they were out of my price range. So I went back, my friendly assistant gushed that the purse and little bag I had bought before had sold out now. I told her I was in for a bag this time. So she helped me choose a style and colour. I opted for this lovely bag in black. All in all I got $640 worth of bags for just $165. I had to raid my savings for some money, but I knew it was worth it. Transferring the contents from my nearly new handbag to my new handbag I realised that last week's bag although pretty was not such high quality as my new new bag. I had taken a step up in less than a week. It made me realise HOW I had taken such a big leap from chavy hippie bag to high quality leather Fossil bag in less than a week. I had taken action! I didn't listen to the little voice inside my head that said things like "You don't deserve it" "You don't need it" "You don't have the money for it" "Other things are way more important" I decided I deserved it and wanted it and I bought a bag that made me feel better about myself. The grateful happy bag energy that I created within me attracted more of that same energy - and I allowed that, too. What's more, it made me feel really beautiful. Here I am in the evening, I had taken a moment out from reading my novel to take my photo because I felt beautiful. Through all of this I realised that the art of allowing requires clear action, and as soon as you step up and allow yourself to have something that makes you feel great, the universe just wants to shower you with more. What have you been wishing for that you haven't taken action on yet? What action could you take TODAY to take a step toward it? Please share your answers and comments in the comments section below. Me? I've been wishing for a car. But I've not taken action yet. So this afternoon I am going to look around the car yards and choose one! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! |
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