You know when you blow up a balloon? You take an in breath and blow it up a little, it takes a great effort to start it off. Then you take another breath and blow it up some more, this goes on and on until it eventually gets to the size that you want it to be. There is very little stress involved in this process, because you understand the process well. Now imagine that you are totally focused on the balloon and not on the process that it’s going through. You’d see it grow then get disappointed that it had stopped growing, then see it grow again getting excited, but oh no it’s stopped again, there must be something wrong with it, oh hang on it’s growing again. It still gets to where you want it to be, but you’re focused on the outcome instead of the process, and it makes you feel like crap. So it is with life. If you focus on the outcomes you're going to feel like crap because you are not seeing the reality that is all in the process. You set an intention for expansion in your life & then you go through a process of growth to get there, along the way there may be gifts & outcomes, but it won't be steady, there will be those in breaths & out breaths. Carry on. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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Matthew McConaughey gave an awesome speech yesterday at the Oscars, did you hear it? He said "It's a scientific fact that gratitude reciprocates" I concur & here's some proof of my own: I decided to employ a team of cleaners to clean my house every week. They showed up as two lovely, cheerful ladies who had such great energy & did such a great job. I was so grateful to not only have my house cleaned for me, but to have them visit each week. My gratitude would last for quite a few days every single week, because as the house would get dirty I would be grateful that it didn't make me feel bad anymore, because I knew that the cleaners would arrive in a few days & clean it all for me. After a couple of weeks I started to leave them to it. They would arrive, we would chat, then I would go get myself a massage while they cleaned my house. I didn't think it could get much better than this: double receiving! I would get back from my massage all relaxed to a wonderfully clean house. I was so so grateful, every single week, for the majority of the week. But then it got even better. My partner started to earn more money & so he started paying for the cleaners each week. Triple receiving for me! I was not only getting my house cleaned, but it was being paid for by someone else & I was receiving a massage every week. I was overflowing with gratitude at how great it all was. It can't get any better than that right? It did! My partner started to give me money to have my massage as well as the money for the cleaners: quadruple receiving! I was having my house cleaned for me, it was being paid for by someone else, I was being massaged & that was also being paid for by someone else. I am so so grateful. It doesn't get any better than that right? I'll let you know how the universe steps it up next! My point is: all of this happened because I can't help but feel so much gratitude for it all. Something that would make me feel bad for most of the week, watching the floors get dirty with cat hairs, knowing that I had to clean it up, knowing that it would make my back ache to clean it up, knowing that I would have to get around to it soon,... was now making me feel amazing the whole week. Getting those cleaners was the second best decision I ever made, the best decision I ever made was deciding to feel gratitude for it all. What change can you make that will turn around a bad feeling into gratitude? I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! I was financially & spiritually crippled by a belief that was taught to me by "spiritual" people many years ago. We were playing cards. I was consistently winning. My friend was consistently coming last. The game required a little skill, skill that he was applying, but still there was this glaring pattern of loss. I asked him "Don't you know how to win?" He replied "Yes, of course I know how to play!" I said "That's not what I asked. I asked do you know how to win? How to manifest a win?" This was his reply "You shouldn't use your spiritual gifts for your own personal gain or your gift will be taken from you." I believed him. I made this vow to the universe: "I will use my gift to help the world but not for personal gain" At that moment in time I had plenty of money. Within the next year all of my money slowly disappeared. I struggled ever since despite working for 14 years selflessly helping others. I thought that I was doing what the universe was asking me, but the universe could not & would not bring me plenty of people to help, no matter how much I tried to grow my business or reach many. It kept telling me to get into balance, to receive to get what I wanted. So I focused on abundance & shifting my abundance issues consistently for 2 years now, there was so much crap within me about it! Yet I had forgotten about this vow until yesterday when I was absent mindedly playing cards on my iPad & the memory drifted into my mind. I released the vow by going to a mirror, looking myself in the eyes & telling my subconscious "I release the vow that I made to not use my gift for personal gain. I now make a vow to be the biggest, best, abundant being I can be. I allow myself to personally gain from my gift as I let the whole world gain from my gift." I woke up this morning with a huge sense of relief. Suddenly my techy team managed to get the credit card payments working again on my website. Coincidence? Not likely. I received a call from a lady wanting to talk about giving me a grant for my business. First time ever. My reward is being magnetised to me now that I have released the vow holding it away from me. I have 14 years of abundance from ceaseless work helping others coming to me right now & I welcome it. To my guides to have kept telling me "You won't even accept the reward for the work you have already done" - I am now, thanks for leading me through my money crap that was holding my spiritual mission back. To all of those "spiritual" people (I put spiritual in ""'s because it is my experience that people who label themselves as spiritual really mean "damaged & hurting") who believe that money is bad, that you shouldn't get personal gain from your gifts or that selling out is going to the dark side, consider this: Wishing lack, poverty & struggle on anyone, including yourself, is utter darkness. Wishing abundance, wellbeing & plenty on everyone, including yourself, is sheer light. It's attachment to anything that really holds you back. Some people are attached to their possessions or money, it's true. But many many more people (I'd guesstimate about 97% of the world population) are attached to their belief in lack. If you find yourself pointing your finger at anyone remember that there are 3 fingers pointing right back at you. What you judge in others is actually your attachment not theirs, you can & will never know what is going on inside a person, whether they are attached or not. Did you also make this debilitating vow? Did you have those dark beliefs in lack? Let's chat in the comments below. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! This happy chappy is called Masuru Emoto & his work rocks. He has been experimenting with water & words. He talks to water then freezes it & looks at its structure under a microscope. What he found was positive words make pretty ice crystals & negative words make ugly ice crystals. Considering we are watery beings these findings have great consequence for us. I saw this experiment he did with rice today & I want to explain how to use these principles to grow your finances because you can & it's easy! Here are 3 jars. Each contains rice & water. The jar on the left was told "I hate you" & you can see from this picture that it has turned brown & it starting to rot. The jar in the middle was told "I love you" & you can see from this picture that is has remained healthy & white. That putrified rotting mess on the right hand side was told nothing - it was completely ignored! These principles apply to water, to rice, to us, to everything in the world including your finances! Most people have finances like the jars on the left & right. Which is yours? If your finances are in the left jar you struggle with them, you do not like your finances, you are dissatisfied with them , you talk about how you don't have enough & so the universe continues to give you rotten finances. If your finances are in the jar on the right, you are so scared of your bills, your credit card debt, your rent, everything, that you stick your head in the sand & completely ignore your money. The universe continues to rot your finances & take them away from you as fast as it can. However, if you would like to have your finances in the healthy jar this is what you need to do: Love your finances right now just as they are. Even if you have $20 in the bank (I have been there, done this & it works!) give thanks that you have a roof over your head, that you somehow pay your bills, that you are in a financially stable country, that your finances are better, even if only slightly, than they were before. Love your finances right as they are. Really love them. Do not ignore them anymore, face them & love them. Your finances will flourish with this energy & you won't even need to do a thing, the universe has this one covered, it grows that which is loved & it will do it for every grain of rice & every single person including you! Enjoy your growing finances. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! A customer asked me this question: When will change come into the physical financial system? Here is my answer: Never. There is nothing wrong with the financial system, it's perfect. If you think that there is something wrong with it then you probably believe that the system is what is keeping abundance from you and others. That's not true. You know if the financial system was changed within a few months everyone would be back to the same lack or abundance that they had before the change? That's because everyone attracts abundance in line with the energy that they give out. Nothing is broken, just people's inability to attract abundance. People are broken, not the system. Here's what you need to do to attract money to you: 1. Love abundance Love money. Love the financial system. Love those with money. Love wealth. Get rid of every negative belief that you have about it. Stop thinking that anyone with money is wrong somehow - they aren't. Someone who loves money will attract it to them. A small majority of people will love money above anything else, but most are more in balance than that. Some people love this child more than anything else in the world and become dependant on it and smother it, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't have children! Stop judging money to be bad, it isn't, it's a fantastic impartial tool that serves us greatly and every single person on this planet has equal access to it. 2. Know you are worthy of abundance Heal all those things within yourself that tell you that you are not worthy of abundance or that you can't have it. You cannot cannot cannot have abundance whilst believing that someone or something is holding it from you - they aren't, it isn't, YOU ARE! Would you look at a healthy fit person or a gym and say, she/he/it is keeping me from being healthy and fit? NO, and thinking that anyone else is keeping you from abundance is exactly the same thing - it's not only rubbish, it keeps abundance away from you. Nobody can change your abundance level but YOU and you cannot affect anyone else's abundance level. 3. Appreciate the abundance that you have Here's what most people think "I don't have enough money. That $500 that I just got isn't enough. This sucks." Thats how to repel money. Here's all you need to do to turn it around "I love and appreciate the $500 that I was just paid. Yes please, more where that came from thanks universe" To show you just how fast this works do this exercise: Go through your whole life giving gratitude and appreciation for all of the money you have ever received. Say it out loud to yourself. Say it like this "I'm so grateful for …" Start with pocket money, the money your parents spent on bringing you up, birthday gifts, christmas gifts, money from family members at parties, paper round money, part time jobs, grants, student loans, loans, interest, wages, winnings, money from partners, anyone who ever bought you a drink, … keep going and you will remember more and more, as you do it just imagine how much money has gone through your hands and bank account in your whole life - millions! Be grateful for every part of it. This exercise will bring money to you so rapidly, like within 24 hours and BE SURE to be grateful for every single cent of it. LOVE MONEY: it's great A life with plenty of money in it is a life full of joy, choices, support, opportunity - just think of the difference that you could make in the world if you accepted plenty of money into your life. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! |
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