Everybody has the gift of intuition. Like any other gift it gets stronger the more we use it. In order to use our intuition we must trust it & follow it. When we feel into a decision we have to make we can feel whether something feels good or not so good. This is our intuitive indicator that leads us on our life path, the path of ease & joy. Surrendering to all that feels heavy & choosing fun instead will have you firmly on this path of ease & joy. Know that you it's okay to turn your back on anything that feels like it drains you or takes your energy away from the joyful energy that you deserve to feel & choose those things that feel like fun, play or joy instead. If there are things that need to be done or handled that feel heavy or take your energy down, it’s time to change them, reframe them in your mind, or change the way you do it so it has a new & fun edge to it. Make the essential mundane chores into a game. When you’re having a good time & choosing the joyful option in every moment, you get into the flow & great things come your way; people will be jealous. That’s their problem. That’s their misalignment. It’s not your problem. Your only job is to stay in alignment. Your only problem in this situation is how you react to their jealous reaction. You can choose to release responsibility for their emotional state, claim the power over your own emotional state & accept that other people will be misaligned when you are aligned. You wouldn’t feel bad about those who are exhaling when you’re taking an in breath would you? For some personal guidance from your higher self click here & book in for a reading with me today I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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Sat in my favourite cafe I turned around to see this sign. "Crew required. Experience preferred." Aquarius is a 62 foot yacht that takes people on sail/snorkel trips to the nearby low isles & then takes people out on a sunset sail. As I lived on a 60 foot yacht for a year until May this year & was a dive/snorkel guide previously, I went in to ask about the position. This sign wasn't my only sign. In the 3 days previous to seeing this final sign I had had 3 yachts almost bump into me, which is quite a feat considering I've been on land! As each came so close to me I thought "I miss sailing. I miss the yacht. It's time for me to get back out on the water" 2 days after seeing this sign I worked a 12 hour trial shift on the yacht. I sailed it, took a group snorkeling, served breaky, lunch & drinks, took photos, went to the beach on the island, cleaned up the yacht & had so much fun! At the end of the day they gave me the job, not only that but told me I would be paid for my trial day, which is unusual, but I had been a full active crew member I had so much experience already. Now I get paid to do what I love, to do what I had been doing anyway for fun & I will run my online business when I'm not on the yacht, trusting the universe to blend them seamlessly together. I might shoot the weekly readings from it if I have time, too! In order to let this opportunity in I had to do plenty of letting go of how I thought it should be or what I thought I should be doing. I had all kinds of resistances to working for someone else (failure to be only an entrepreneur), tying myself to one place (lack of freedom), expectations of me living on a yacht again (even though I didn't like the isolation of it full time on a yacht anyway) or it looking a different way than this. I worked through all of these resistances & let go. I stopped trying to push my business or trying to find somewhere to give my readings in person here (not in the flow: couldn't find one) & then when I finally let go, admitting to the universe that I don't know, this showed up. I knew it was my next step because it filled me with so much joy I've been jumping up & down 😀 Do you want help with the resistances to your next joyful step? Get a reading & your higher self will help you through it. Click here to book in today. Let's get you on the next joyful step of your life path, too! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! You know when you blow up a balloon? You take an in breath and blow it up a little, it takes a great effort to start it off. Then you take another breath and blow it up some more, this goes on and on until it eventually gets to the size that you want it to be. There is very little stress involved in this process, because you understand the process well. Now imagine that you are totally focused on the balloon and not on the process that it’s going through. You’d see it grow then get disappointed that it had stopped growing, then see it grow again getting excited, but oh no it’s stopped again, there must be something wrong with it, oh hang on it’s growing again. It still gets to where you want it to be, but you’re focused on the outcome instead of the process, and it makes you feel like crap. So it is with life. If you focus on the outcomes you're going to feel like crap because you are not seeing the reality that is all in the process. You set an intention for expansion in your life & then you go through a process of growth to get there, along the way there may be gifts & outcomes, but it won't be steady, there will be those in breaths & out breaths. Carry on. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! I had an ah ha moment today. It was revealed to me through a judgment of someone else that had been praying on my mind for some time, but I hadn't brought this judgment into my fully conscious mind to pick it apart and find out what it was trying to tell me about myself ... until today. If you're on Facebook I'm sure you've had this experience before: whenever you see a certain person's posts, they always seem to be negative and draining. A Facebook friend of mine was constantly posting negatively about her ex and if she wasn't doing that she would be posting about her current partner and how she could get her own way with him when he wanted something different. As a survivor of a few control freaks these posts triggered me every time I saw them. I feel sorry for her ex who she is trying to manipulate and I feel sorry for her current relationship which in all likelihood won't end well. So today I decided enough was enough - I don't need to read such negativity every day, so I unfriended her. I meditated on what this had been teaching me about myself. I know it's all about me - there is nothing that happens in my life that is about anyone else really. It was obvious I was being triggered because of a similar experience with my ex trying to manipulate and control me in the same way through our children but there was something running much deeper than this, I just knew it! Here's the thing: she is a successful empowerment coach, yet she is clearly showing traits of someone that is disempowered, so she is still on her own journey to empowerment. There it was! I had found my real judgment! I believed that she didn't deserve success because she hadn't mastered what she was teaching yet. I believed that in order to teach I needed to be perfect, that I needed to have mastered what I'm teaching in myself first before I am worthy of success - I have been holding myself to such strict and high standards that I can never live up to because life is a path of constant growth, it's never done, perfection and mastery is unattainable. I have been holding success away from me all of this time because of this faulty belief. In my conscious mind I already knew:
But there was a contradictory habitual emotional belief about myself that had me not only judging myself as flawed and therefore not worthy but also judging successful people for their flaws. I did some EFT tapping on it to release it. Thank you Brad Yates! I kept hearing my mother say "You didn't deserve that." every time anything good happened to me, released that! I wrote out some new affirmations:
I feel so much better. I feel free of chains. And although I am grateful for the lesson my ex-Facebook friend gave me I still don't want to read those negative posts every day! You too can use this technique whenever you feel judgmental of someone or something keeps bugging you, delve deeper at what the faulty belief is behind it all I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Success means achieving your goals. Your goals are personal & unique. Your personal goals are dependent on your own personal value system. Success to you might mean plenty of money, or a happy family, it might mean freedom to be creative in any way that you desire, or being in a happy relationship. Whatever success means to you, there is a healing path to finding success in your goals. 1. Decide on your goal Decide on a goal that is important to you. Not what someone else might want for you. Make it specific and decide on a date by which you will accomplish it, write that date in your calendar and tell others your goal. 2. Write down your affirmations Think about what you would need to believe about yourself and life in order for that goal to come true with ease. Write down all of these beliefs as if they are true as affirmations. Say these affirmations a few times a day, in a mirror, looking yourself in the eye. 3. Release your blocks There will have been 1 or more affirmations that were the harder for you to believe than others. Pay attention to these affirmations and what your current belief really is. Look at how your goals are currently manifesting in line with your current beliefs in this area and know that you can let these old beliefs go and choose your new beliefs. This process takes time and perseverance, but it is possible and it's best done with the best help available and with accountability! Share your goal in the comments below and let's keep each other accountable for them! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! |
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