As you sow, so shall you reap.

Man can make their own rules for life as much as they like, saying that hate speech is allowed because of freedom of speech, but man cannot  circumvent the spiritual law of karma.

Think of this law of karma as the spiritual equivalent of Newton’s Law of Motion. “For every action there is an equal but opposite reaction.” When we create a negative force in thought, word, or action, the consequences of that negative energy comes to us, not to who it was directed at.

Words are not just a 3 dimensional way of communicating with each other and the only consequences of those words will be from whomever hears them and takes action on them. We might think we live in a 3 dimensional reality but we don't.

There is a power in words, every religion speaks of it, be it spells or prayer. Words said out loud hold a power that instructs reality. When we use positive words we gain blessings, this is good or light magic. When we use negative words we experience punishments, this is dark magic. What we speak out doesn't happen outside of us, it happens to us!

I have often talked of lessons, and I would have previously worded that last sentence as "​When we use negative words we experience lessons" But I don't want good people to think that their lessons in life are some kind of punishment, because they are not. We are all here to learn, but lessons are often not punishments.

I am currently writing my next book and there is a passage in it on the power of words. My guides were clear that there are punishments that are handed out to those who disobey the Lores, spiritual laws that have been repeated in every religion, such as love your neighbour as yourself.

These Lores are spoken of for a reason: it's a code to live by so that you gain blessings and so that you don't receive punishments - the consequences of your words and actions.

We very rarely see the correlation of results of the law of karma and the words that created it, because often negative words are concealed, only a few people hear them, the negativity stays at home, just for the family to hear. However, today we all get to see, read and hear what everyone is saying. As a result we can clearly see the law of karma taking place.

Wish harm on somebody with your thoughts, words and actions and that very same energy is sent back to you. It's a spiritual law. It's futile to spend time talking about how it shouldn't be so, and freedom of speech and all of that, but the universe will not change its laws, no matter how much you would like it to.

A good citizen is not somebody who breaks the laws of their country. A good Christian is not someone who breaks the laws of their religion. A good human being is not someone who breaks the laws of the universe.

We are ascending right now, the whole Earth, if you continue to think in a 3 dimensional way, as if we are all machines instead of the spiritual creator beings that we are, then you might get caught on the wrong side of the spiritual laws.

We are creator spiritual beings, our thoughts, words and actions create and if you look for it you will see much faster karma taking place as we ascend.

Be careful of your thoughts and your words, use them to create good in the world.

I'll get back to finishing writing this book now! It seems it is needed more than ever. Watch this space!

Uncle Bill bought Park Lane and Mayfair early in the game and now he has so many properties that you're paying him rent at every turn, you're out of money and so he lets you trade what little else you have left to pay him...

You know how it goes in those end games of Monopoly. The writing is on the wall. There is nothing you can do, but keep paying Uncle Bill, hating him more and more as he delights in bringing everyone else to their knees. But he wants the glory, he wants to play until the end, until nobody has anything left and he has it all.

That's what's going on in the world right now. Capitalism's endless growth means that Uncle Bill gets everything and they relentlessly play on, while everyone else is already on their knees.

What a dreadful time to be alive on this planet to trying to survive this. Yet what an incredible time to be alive, too. Clearly change is coming, a revolution is brewing. People don't just keep calm and carry on when they have to work 3 jobs just to be able to eat and have a roof over their head just so that the rich can continue to amass all of the money for themselves.

What can we do? My guides assure me that we have a very bright future. We have all the resources and technology on this planet for every single person to live an incredible life of joy and abundance, but the systems in place right now need to break apart so that we can ALL enjoy the abundance that Gaia has for us.

Gaia gives plenty for every man, woman, child and creature on this planet and she is not so happy with how things have been going lately. Who do they think they are claiming that they own the resources of the planet and we can't have it unless we give up every hour of our waking days in toil for a little of it? Gaia feels our energy, the energy of every single being on this planet and she lovingly wants us all to feel much better than we have been feeling. She has also heard our cries of pain.

Some messages from Gaia:

It is not a personal failing to not be able to manifest abundance right now. It is the systems that are broken, not you. Gaia wants you all to have access to the abundance that she offers and so the systems must fall so that positive change can happen.

Tend to your nervous system, do whatever you can to feel better through this transitional time. Try not to find your safety and security through those old systems because they will fail you. Find your safety within and amongst kind hearted people. Be there for each other through this.

Heal yourself, challenging times bring up our issues to be dealt with. When the energy is as intense as it is right now, it's important to heal these wounds from the past, from your childhood, from the relationships you've had with those without empathy, from the circumstances you've been in where your power has been taken away.

Your true power lies within. Both Gaia and Source favour those who hold the light. You will be provided for. Every person has chosen which direction they want to go in, based on either holding this light, in a spiritual sense, doing the right thing, or holding the darkness, not caring about doing the right thing, using control to win. So distance yourself from those holding the dark energy, don't try to receive from them, don't give to them and try not to rely on what they make or the services they provide. Don't feed their power. You cannot receive from within these dark systems, nor from those without empathy. Band together with those holding the light and those with empathy, help each other out, use their services, buy their offerings, rely on them alone. Be discerning as to whose energy you exchange with, get to know who is growing your food, steer clear of buying anything from anyone just trying to make a profit regardless of your health and the Earth's health. Be conscious in your choices, in every choice you make to choose only from those who hold the light. This will make this transition easier for you to go through.

With all this in mind I have added a by-donation reading/energy healing to my offerings. Pay little if you have little, pay plenty if you have plenty. I will ask your higher self what you most need right now, a reading, an energy healing, or both and deliver it to you, within 48 hours (often much sooner).

I recognise that our spiritual work right now is THE most important to attend to, however, with money being quite rightly spent on food and accomodation first, it can be scary to seek the help that you might need.

I am here to help, to help everyone I can help. Please share this with anybody who might need this by-donation service at the moment. Let's help each other to get through this difficult time.

Empaths tend to be over-givers & therefore attract people who will take take take. It's exhausting, so let me teach you how to change this pattern!
The universe is always in a state of balance and when we are out of balance we attract people who are also out of balance but on the opposite side of that balance. Perhaps you believe that it is good to give give give, to be generous, and you're right, it is. But perhaps you also believe that it's not ok to receive, that it's not safe to receive, or that it makes you selfish to receive. When you pair these beliefs up, you have the recipe for an over-giver who doesn't allow reciprocation in.
You might think that if you receive more, then that makes you selfish. But if you think of a scale, on one end of the scale you have those who are completely selfless, who will only give & never receive. On the other end of the scale you have completely selfish people, who only take & will not give a thing. In the middle there is balance. Those who allow themselves to receive as much as they give, those who know they deserve to receive as much as they give. 

These people who are in balance, they can give more & when they do they start to receive more, because they allow it, because they believe in this balance. It is a form of self-love, to know that you deserve to receive.
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Now put yourself in the shoes of the universe. It's your job to match up energies so that everyone gets what they want. You have one person who only wants to receive & they want to give nothing at all, you also have another person who only wants to give & they want to receive nothing at all - MATCH! You will put those 2 people together because they are an out-of-balance match right?

How to receive more:

1. Change your belief system. It's no better to give than to receive. They are both good. Balance is best,

2. Change your expectations of receiving. Know that love is incomplete unless you include yourself in that, self-love. Expect to receive as much energy, love, etc. back as you give out in the world.

3. Hold back your energy in the non-reciprocal situations you have found yourself in. Stop doing it. Opt out. 

4. Notice reciprocity. Allow yourself to receive from what you give. Charge for what you do. Ask for that raise because you work hard. Choose reciprocal people to engage with. When a situation is one-way, remove yourself from the dynamic. No longer be willing to supply the takers with what they are asking for: supply without giving.

I see empaths feeling bad about themselves, comparing themselves to the success, money & shiny things of the non-empaths. Don't do this to yourself!
The non-empaths can do anything, because they don't care who it affects, they can sell you snake oil, they can make up a problem & fake a non-cure, they can sell you harmful things, and they do, they make a lot of money from it & gain a lot of success from it. They pretend to be perfect, they fake their results, they yell "look at me" whilst not being any of those things in reality.
Do not compare yourself & your results to these people - the world is rewarding narcissistic behaviour enough, don't become a part of it!

Non-empaths are feeling bad about themselves when they should be feeling good! We are sooooooo much better than the narcissists, our hearts, our love, our caring, the way we do the right thing, they way we want to make the world a better place, the way we will not compromise ourselves.

We not only need to appreciate these things in ourselves but we need to speak out to others and appreciate them openly for them doing the right thing too.
We can make a huge difference in an empaths life by telling them "You're great, you really care, it is so lacking in our world, you're the best!" "You always do the right thing, you really care, I love that about you!"
Tell the empathic men too! "Your caring is so attractive, it's so much more attractive that all that money & the fancy cars & the bling" "I'd pick a man with a good heart like you over a man with outer success any day of the week!"
They need to know, it needs to be spoken out. Sometimes we need to hear it to remind ourselves, yes, it's true, we are soooooo much better than the narcissists! It's harder to do the right thing in a world that rewards ding the wrong thing more!

Let's stop appreciating the empaths traits silently. Let's shout about it! Let's point it out & make each other feel better, feel more empowered, feel more able to shine.
Help the empaths with their businesses, stop buying from the narcissists, let's show the world that we promote empaths, we support positive human traits in people, we reward these people!
Be the change you want to see in the world!
By the way, your heart, it's awesome, I love the way you do good in the world, you are awesome, I wish there were more people like you, I appreciate you!

I have 2 stories to tell you, 2 stories that until today I have not linked, but now has me questioning "Do 50% of humans not have empathy?

"My therapist said that I'm a psychopath!" my colleague on arriving into the office one morning, I was the only one there. My mind was racing, aren't psychopaths serial killers, should I be scared right now? My response was "Huh? You're a serial killer?" This seemed at odds with my feeling & experience of him as a very intellligent, funny, deep guy, who I liked, very much. He said no, he tried to explain it to me this way, "Claire, how do you know the difference between good & bad?" I said it's inside of me, I just know, I feel it. He said "Yes, it's that, I don't have that, I don't know the difference between good and bad unless I have been told what is good or bad. Then I have a choice of doing the good thing or not" I was amazed "So you could do anything & not feel bad about it?" He said "Yes, but I know not to do the bad things, because I've been told not to" 
So his therapist said that this is a psychopath diagnosis, I think more reasonably called a non-empath, somebody who doesn't feel for other people, so they don't have an inner feeling of wrong & right.

"Just fall in love with that guy Claire" said my friend about a mutual friend that we knew. My visceral reaction was to look at her curiously as if she had just said "Just fly up to the moon & back Claire" How could I decide to fall in love with some guy like that? That's not how love works, falling in love is not something I choose to do, it's something that I feel that I have no control over. Now I can choose to love, but falling in love, that's a totally different experience, and out of my control. Oh romance would be so much easier if I could choose who to fall in love with! It had me go down this rabbit hole of learning about limerence.
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A scientist interviewed a lot of people, asking them about their experiences falling in love. He was surprised to learn that all of the people he interviewed fell into 2 different experiences of love. Some were limerent, meaning that they fell in love, a feeling that took over them about somebody else they didn't choose logically, these people were prone to obsessive thoughts about their person, in fact it could take over everything in their life for a while. The people who were in the other camp, they chose somebody & developed a relationship with them which turned into feelings of connection and what they called love. But they don't have that overwhelming feeling of falling in love. When asked what they think of romantic movies about falling in love, their response would be "I always thought it was just that, a movie, make believe, that people didn't really experience this, like Santa"

Dr Ramani, the world expert on Narcissism, specifically in healing from narcissistic abuse, has said anywhere from 1 in 6 showing narcissistic traits to I think 1 in 20 being diagnosable narcissists. I think this is a guess, I haven't heard of any studies having found this out.
​I believe that Narcissism, Psychopathy, Abusers, I think all of these may be found in the non-empath camp. What if non-empathy is the personality type & it can manifest as harmful (to others) behaviour if they weren't brought up right, or had a lack of religion, or just a lack of anybody teaching them right from wrong, or perhaps being taught by society or others around them that it's right or at least ok to harm others?
What if the apparent rise of these narcissistic traits is not because there are more non-empaths than ever, but because of the fall in religion, the fall in parents having more time with their children to bring them up, capitalism rewarding narcissistic behaviour, algorithms rewarding narcissistic behaviour? What if it is being encouraged in them & this is why we are seeing the negative manifestation of non-empathy?

I often wondered what the difference was between me & my brother, how we could have grown up along side each other experiencing the same abuse, or very similar, and he chose to abuse too, whereas I would never want anybody to experience what I experienced & to feel that way.
I wondered why when my ex husband had experienced his first child being turned against him, would he do the exact same thing to me "But you know how this feels" I said "why would you do the same thing to me?" I could never figure out why people often would not do the same thing that I would,

The personality trait of empathy a feeling state that drives empaths, it causes us to never want to harm someone, never want others to feel bad, most definitely if we have felt something previously as the victim of it. It causes us to inherently do the right thing by others & by the world.
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But this same personality trait is lacking in what percentage of people? 
If limerence is a side effect of empathy, then we are looking at 50% of people having empathy & 50% of people not having empathy.

Single empaths are having a terrible time dating right now, because there are so many narcissists out there. Take a look at any social media post about it, read the comments & you will find men calling out all women as being narcissists, and the women calling out all the men as being narcissists, but they're pointing at the wrong trait. It's not about gender, it's about non-empathy & if we can discern non-empathy in people then not get into relationships with them, not friendships or romantic relationships then we will experience better. If we can discern empathy in people & choose these ones to have friendships & romantic relationships with (& yes, limerents this means not trusting your feelings because you can fall in love with either very easily!) then we will have much better relationships.

I do want to mention here that this isn't about good or bad people. Non-empaths exist & the universe doesn't make mistakes. They are awesome at business, clearly that they don't take others feelings into account is a gift that can have them focus on building things, creating things. Sure these things might harm people, like giant  corporations that make highly addictive non-food products that destroy our health, and their buddies giant pharmaceutical companies selling the products that still keep you just sick enough to keep needing them but never healthy again,  & the people they pay to sell their junk, government organisations, health-care systems, mainstream media,... Did you ever wonder why there is an organisation called the Food & Drug Administration? Why would those 2 things be linked together?

What if the non-empaths were never supposed to be making the decisions? What if they don't make good leaders? Why would someone who doesn't take into account the people be the right person to be a leader in anything? What if empaths should be the ones making the decisions, leading the way? What if the empaths decide what is right and wrong, and then steer the non-empaths to shine their awesomeness in the right direction for humanity?

Wouldn't that create a much better balance for everybody thriving? Wouldn't that be evolution?

As long as disregard for people & the planets wellbeing is being rewarded, profit no matter what & once you have the money you have the power & can therefore decide, we are on a terrible trajectory. We are clearly in  process of devolution right now, things are getting worse.

I have hope that people with empathy will recognise how valuable our traits are, & that they are essential to the collective. I have hope that we will rise up & be the decision makers. Not to make non-empaths wrong: but to work together for the benefit of everybody. I have hope. I also hope that it doesn't require even more devastation than we already have to get to this point of change.