Our relationship with ourselves creates the relationships that we have with others.
When I didn't love myself very much and didn't even like myself very much, I had unfulfilling relationships with people that I didn't like that much either. I strived to love them anyway, but that love was very conditional and always disappointed me.
I got in a pattern of trying to love and like myself through others loving and liking me more, and it never worked. They always reflected how I was feeling about myself back to me.
There came a point in my life, around 7 years ago when I decided enough was enough. I could not carry on going through these same patterns, having the same kinds of relationships over and over with a new face on them. I stopped. I withdrew into myself. I not only withdrew from romantic relationships and men, but I also withdrew from my friendships. I needed space to find myself, to learn to like myself, to learn to love myself.
That space was all I needed to get clear on what I really wanted, what I really deserved and the space allowed me to realise that I could have what I wanted too.
I then went through a process of letting go of all my previous relationships, the ones I held a torch for and the ones I felt resentment toward - I cleared my relationship karma. I decided what I really wanted in a partner, who I really wanted to be in a relationship and it didn't take long to manifest my soul mate, the one that is always on the same path as me, who shares my values and dreams.
This week's best life tip is to allow yourself space when you need it. It's ok with withdraw. The world will keep turning. You are your highest priority, so give yourself the time you need to get clear about yourself.
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