In my many years of giving psychic readings, helping my customers to get aligned with what they want in life & manifest it all, one thing comes up over & over again, that is: asking for the wrong things from the universe in the first place. Mary wants to lose weight, so she has an idea that she might exercise. She asks the universe for more air, she knows when she has more air she will be able to exercise. She writes it down in her journal, more air please universe! She affirms it "I have more air!" She tries to find out why she hasn't got more air, she tries to heal it in herself,... She never gets more air. OK, this is a silly example, but it's what people do, over & over again. Everyone knows that you just start exercising & then your body naturally starts to breathe harder & faster, the air is already present in whatever quantity you need. So if Mary had just asked for what she actually wanted, to be slim, then started to exercise, because she had already had the guidance to do that to get to where she wanted to be, she would have naturally attracted more air into her lungs. It was always there available for her, she just needed to do it. Of course people rarely ask for more air, it's usually money that they ask for, thinking that they can only start to ask for what they really want with that money once they have that money, so that they can fulfil their desires themselves & not rely on that pesky universe that demands alignment with what they are asking for! Can you see the problem here? Abundance of anything, air, money, friends, opportunities, apples, yellow butterflies, smiles, customers, ideas, words, thoughts, anything, is ALWAYS available to EVERYBODY. You just have to ask for what you actually want the money FOR & go for that, just start doing it! You just have to ask for what you actually want those friends FOR & just start doing that! You just have to ask for what you want those opportunities FOR & do that! You just have to ask for what you want those apples for & go pick them! You get the picture. Another way that people ask for the wrong thing is that they ask for what they don't want anymore. For example, they might ask for their anxiety to go away, or they might ask for their illness to go away, or they might ask for their depression to be healed. On that face of it this seems like an aware ask, but it won't work. Why do you want your anxiety to go away? What is it that you want a good mental state for? What would you do with that? What is it that you REALLY want? Ask for that! Why do you want your illness to go away? What is it that you want with health & wellbeing? What would you do with that? What is it that you REALLY want? Ask for that! Why do you want your depression to be healed? What is it that you want with a good emotional state? What would you do with that? What is it that you REALLY want? Ask for that! Dream bigger, go deeper, what is it that YOU really want? Share it in the comments below I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how!
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It was 1992, I had just graduated university in England, 8 month's pregnant & alone, I could no longer trust my boyfriend of 6 years so I had ended the relationship. I had finished a temporary job that I had taken because being a student before you get pregnant meant that you don't qualify for maternity benefits, only those who were unemployed or employed did. I had to work until they would no longer let me work. After my son was born I got financial help from the government, it wasn't much but it was enough to live off for which I was grateful but I knew that things had to change. I just couldn't remain stuck in this poverty trap, I knew I deserved better. Little did I know that things were about to get much, much worse. I applied for entry level graduate jobs & landed myself one. The wages only just covered my 1 room apartment rent & childcare costs. I knew I had to do it anyway to get myself out of this situation. I was determined to do whatever it took to set myself free, to have the income that both me & my son deserved. What it took was: getting a pushbike & having a baby seat fixed to the back. Riding my son to the childminder, then racing the journey to work that would have taken anyone less desperate at least 25 minutes. Working a 7 hour day only taking a 30 minute lunch break. Racing back to the childminder because if she worked more than 7 hours she charged overtime rates which I didn't have. Getting us home to feed & bathe my son before putting him to bed. Eating white bread with a slice of ham & mayonnaise for dinner. It took me going from my usual 58kg down to 44 kg. It took me walking out of work slamming doors after asking for raise & being told that if I was "serious" about this job then I would put more hours in! (even though I told HIM about my situation) It took every ounce of my energy, fat, determination & will power, then I got a raise. The raise that allowed me to eat & for me to be healthy again instead of just making sure my son was healthy. I shed a tear writing that, taking myself back there. They were the hardest of times. I am also proud of myself for those times. That raise was the start of many. Over the next few years I not only earned plenty but I also invested wisely & grew my money significantly. 8 years & 2 more children later I left that same job because I had achieved everything society told me would make me happy & I wasn't happy. I had the money, I had the job which I only worked school term time so that I could spend time with my children. I had a few holidays a year. I had a new car. I had a big house. I had it all, but I felt so empty inside. The life I was living wasn't fulfilling me. I made a brave decision & gave it all up. I needed to follow a new path. I started meditating & got onto the path of a deeper more fulfilling life. Unfortunately, for my financial wellbeing only, this path had me reading spiritual books that told me that I should be of service to others, that I shouldn't want things for myself, that this would happen naturally as a result of helping others. It didn't. It was a lie. Unfortunately I was around spiritual people who were abundantly challenged, who told me I shouldn't be doing anything for myself, that I would get my reward after I die (this sounds so ridiculous to me now it makes me laugh). But laugh as I might now, I believed it all back then. I went from being wealthy to having nothing, literally nothing. Because I love helping others with my gift this nothingness stuck with me for many years, only just getting by, thinking that if I just help others my reward will come some time, some time soon maybe universe, sometime before I have to pay this bill universe? I was missing something fundamental, something that I had realised way back in 1992, that I deserved better, that I deserved financial plenty for ME, for MYSELF, for MY life, for MY enjoyment, for MY wellbeing, for ME. I had spent years trying to barter with the universe, pretending like everyone else was more deserving than me "I'll help hundreds of people, just please help me pay this one bill" & I did! I was so depleted, surrounded by people that needed help, both in my professional life & in my personal life. It was exhausting. But still I didn't get that I needed to know that I deserved it, I needed to want it for ME Every time I was guided to look at my reasons for wanting money the spiritual guilt would come out from hiding & I would try to find more righteous reasons for wanting the money "I'll give it away", "I'll help many people with it", "I'll help the needy" always thinking that everyone else was more deserving than I was. These spiritual beliefs about money crippled me for so many years. I could clearly see when it had happened, when the money stopped growing & rapidly started to disappear, but I couldn't pin it down to the actual belief that had caused me to only just survive again... until I did. In 2012 I published my first book "The Healing Path Within" I meditated to talk to my guides & said "Great! Now I can help millions of people!" my higher self said "Not likely, you won't allow the results of it back" That was a punch in the gut, but I knew it was true. Why would a book help when everything else I had done hadn't helped? So over the last 6 years I have focused on healing my abundance, on questioning my beliefs about abundance, on releasing past money memories, blocks & raising my abundance consciousness. The final step was to recognise that I deserve plenty for ME, for MY life, for MYSELF. What beliefs hold your greater abundance away? Comment below I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! If your religion keeps you in poverty then there is something wrong with your religion. I have witnessed more "spiritual" people in poverty than any other religious group. This means that the collective general beliefs that "spiritual" people have block off their prosperity. You create what you believe. What you believe you deserve & what you believe is possible. 18 years ago I was a wealthy woman. I was earning a lot of money. I had great things. I always seemed to choose the right investments that multiplied my money fast. But I also had emotional issues from abuse that I needed to heal. This need brought me to "spiritual" people. This is when my prosperity turned into poverty, it happened very fast too. Because along with the soothing & the beliefs that were helping me to heal my emotional issues from abuse, I was also listening to & believing in the negative beliefs about wealth. So my blessings stopped, my manifestations stopped, I could no longer magically pick amazing investments, my money dwindled to zero & then I only ever had enough to survive on. In the last 6 years I have healed this in myself. In my quest for healing I actually picked up more issues that required healing! The beliefs that plummeted me into poverty were: That I am not powerful. That I shouldn't seek to be appreciated or thanked. That it's wrong to want & have wealth. That the world is broken & the source of most of the problems are the rich. That material things are not spiritual. Amongst others. What I know now is that when I am using my true power, my mind, in a positive way, by thinking positive thoughts that make me feel good, & my emotional state, feeling love, good feelings, joy & my beliefs are that of love & perfection in ALL, incredible manifestations happen every single day & they include money manifestations. One of the greatest changes in my manifestation ability came when I learned to love myself. It was my belief in myself that was the last key that unlocked all of my blessings. So if you think "The ultra rich are causing poverty" & you don't realise that YOU CREATE WHAT YOU BELIEVE, meaning that it is YOUR beliefs that cause your poverty & THEIR beliefs that cause their ultra richness. Nobody else's beliefs can affect your experience in any way UNLESS you listen to them & believe them too, as I had. So thinking that the ultra rich (or banks, or anyone else) are causing your poverty is like thinking that the ultra healthy are causing your sickness, you understand easily that it makes no sense that someone else's health, their eating, their exercise, their belief in their body's ability to heal, their looking after themselves has anything to do with your health, your eating, your exercise, your belief in your body's ability to heal, your looking after yourself. So why believe that money is any different? Because it really isn't. We have a power in ourselves that is the most powerful force on this planet & that power is our mind & our emotions. When we think & feel right, right meaning aligning with our higher selves thoughts, aligning with source, magical miracles & manifestations happen every day. We need to have our own spiritual practices that keep us from picking up on the negativity around us, so that we can be in alignment with OURSELVES & not follow blindly follow a religion or any group's negative beliefs. I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! Everybody has the gift of intuition. Like any other gift it gets stronger the more we use it. In order to use our intuition we must trust it & follow it. When we feel into a decision we have to make we can feel whether something feels good or not so good. This is our intuitive indicator that leads us on our life path, the path of ease & joy. Surrendering to all that feels heavy & choosing fun instead will have you firmly on this path of ease & joy. Know that you it's okay to turn your back on anything that feels like it drains you or takes your energy away from the joyful energy that you deserve to feel & choose those things that feel like fun, play or joy instead. If there are things that need to be done or handled that feel heavy or take your energy down, it’s time to change them, reframe them in your mind, or change the way you do it so it has a new & fun edge to it. Make the essential mundane chores into a game. When you’re having a good time & choosing the joyful option in every moment, you get into the flow & great things come your way; people will be jealous. That’s their problem. That’s their misalignment. It’s not your problem. Your only job is to stay in alignment. Your only problem in this situation is how you react to their jealous reaction. You can choose to release responsibility for their emotional state, claim the power over your own emotional state & accept that other people will be misaligned when you are aligned. You wouldn’t feel bad about those who are exhaling when you’re taking an in breath would you? For some personal guidance from your higher self click here & book in for a reading with me today I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! I know what it's like to be struggling financially. When you are living pay cheque to pay cheque, when bills arrive & you don't know how you will pay them. It's a very stressful state to be in. Universally speaking it's a state that re-manifests itself. This means that when you continue to focus on the lack you are experiencing, on the struggle, on the not enough, on the stress, more of the same must manifest from that focus. The great news is that there is a path from lack to overflowing abundance & it's easier than you think. The requirements are commitment to the process & self-awareness to keep yourself on track. 1. Set a clear intention that this is the day that your financial experience changes. Affirm to the universe that you are no longer willing to suffer from this lack, you choose financial abundance! 2. Spend time a few times a day focusing on money coming to you, being paid, receiving cash, your bank account filling up, your purse overflowing with cash, your bank account overflowing with money, so much money that there is way more than you need for everything you could even think of doing, paying for or buying. 3. When you catch yourself focusing on the lack again, on the struggle, become aware of it "Oh, I was just focused on what I don't want again" & then do step 2 in order to spend more time focused on the overflow than the lack. 4. Face & heal everything that comes up during this process that makes you feel undeserving or unworthy. Get help with that from your higher self by clicking here Stick with the process & your financial experience will begin to change, timing is dependent on many factors so keep the faith. You can do this! I'm Claire Louise Hay, I help you claim your true power to manifest the life of your dreams through self-awareness and alignment with your higher self. Want to work with me? Click here to find out how! |
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